Ok, having watched last week's...
Those with names crossed out, aren't necessarily 'dead', so much as they have other 'responsibilities'. For Jin and Sun, it was each other (and probably their daughter) - hence their deaths on the island and for Kate it was Aaron. What I got from the sideways view, was that the rest of them are trying to contain the monster, and that was why Desmond was trying to 'wake' them all up. It seems that Ben is getting his wake-up moment, and probably Russeau, too. Which might make for an interesting turn of events, as Ben gets his daughter back - when he killed Whidmore to keep him from saving his daughter.
Will be interesting to see what happens when Jack wakes up.