I had an 'internet boyfriend' for about a year in high school, we skyped and everything. He was in the state, so when we finally met in person... Awkward as fuck.
Just saying. You don't have to touch for a connection, but someone's personality through a computer is gonna be at least a little bit of a farce, no matter your honest intentions.
RJ, have you ever had a normal relationship? It seems your lack of having one is leading you to justify all the rather unorthodox "relationships" you've had.
"Normal" relationship? What would you define as a "normal" relationship?
For those that aren't (since I've never seen a single episode of that show): It means he's going for a threesome.
Regular, often exclusive, physical contact complemented by mutual emotional support.
I'm on the fence about the whole "touch is needed for a emotional connection" but, especially with increased internet dating and applications like Tinder, but I have to agree with this. The screen gives someone a veil to hide behind for a while until the initial in person meeting.
But to be fair, people can still be like that in real life...
On a side note, my ex bailed on meeting up at the last minute. So that was fun. Not sure if I should reschedule that or just wait to hear back again. Or I could just burn that bridge and make life about 20 times easier.
Being able to see and touch a person is not a requirement for an emotional connection. You'd be surprised how much you can be in a person's life physically and not emotionally. A connection is a mutual feeling shared between two people, whether it's through letters, fucking, the internet, or they communicate through dance like bees, the only requirement is communication.
Some people definitely manage to express their personality effectively online, but I'd say like 7 or 8 out of 10 can't.
Burn that bridge yo. There's someone more respectful out there for you.
In my experience, reconnecting with exes has tended to be a painful experience if you have yet to find somebody new. I wouldn't bother.