Males and Females

If I hit on a woman it means a lot because am normally not attracted to anyone. So if nothing happens it takes a major turn on me. I can't believe nothing happened. It will eat me up.
 
I work in a bar at the moment (at least for another few months), and even though it's filled with executives and corporates we do occasionally get a younger crowd on the weekends.

I've flirted with girls when they come in, gotten numbers and actually called some of them after work. It is my job to make customers feel special, talk to them about absolutely anything, it is somewhat taboo to actually proceed with anything after serving customers though, but it doesn't really matter if things are outside work.

Cyth, I think you should just get talking to her. It's kind of their job to talk to you, so charm your way right there. Somehow get her to write her number on the back of the napkin, you'll know that she's keen if she's the one giving her number to you.
 
Here's a question I always wondered since we're talking about online dating. Say you meet a girl and intend to pay for her, but she turns out to be a loser/ugly/not someone you want to see again. Do you still pay?

Not sure how the chick would turn out to be ugly unless she posted fake pictures. But for any other reason unless she was a real bitch, yes I would pay.
 
If she turned out to be ugly, tell her you're all about equal rights so you each have to pay for your own meal. Then tell her you're on a diet and leave once you're finished your glass of water. Or just tell her you don't like literally throwing away good food into the dumpster.

If she's fat you certainly don't want to be paying that bill! A cheeseburger & fries, a salad, and three helpings of dessert later...no good. Paying this bill will fuck you over more than she ever could!

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Then of course, you can do the good ol' "I gotta use the bathroom" and then run away. I'm gonna pretend that I haven't done something like that.
 
Lads [yes, Laura you're lumped with the fellas], what are your opinions on dating friends? Friends that you know very well for at least a year.
 
Not a good idea. My friend is dating another one of my female friends and I can't stand the sight of them being together. I have to put on a mask every time we all hang out in order to save the friendship.
 
I would NEVER do it, I don't shit where I eat ever. Never have and probably never will but never say never. Need more details though, what's going on?
 
I don't see what's wrong with dating friends, for one you know what they're like and what to expect of them. The only thing that would be extremely weird is if you know that one of your other friends likes them... IMO, it's better to know someone as friends first before you actually start dating them. That way you push all the bullshit aside before getting those little butterflies in your stomach telling you to be shy or coy.

Sure it might be a little awkward if you guys break up, but if you're mature to keep it on a friendship level you should be fine.
 
Here's a question I always wondered since we're talking about online dating. Say you meet a girl and intend to pay for her, but she turns out to be a loser/ugly/not someone you want to see again. Do you still pay?
You pay because you're a gentleman. You don't lead her on during/after the date because you're a gentleman.

Not a good idea. My friend is dating another one of my female friends and I can't stand the sight of them being together. I have to put on a mask every time we all hang out in order to save the friendship.
I was going to make a joke about Jordan and Guy getting together but then I saw you wrote "female" friend. You ruined my joke. (Sorry bro, that sucks)
 
I took turns paying with that girl I was with ages ago. I kind of feel an extra sense of superiority over AUG because of that.