Males and Females
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I'm just repeating the most common psychology/relationship advice. Especially considering Mathias' age. There also can be a mismatch of sexual styles. One person has an adventurous sexuality and the other is a "comfort creature". A relationship with this mismatch is considered difficult to take long term.
My solution to getting bored with sex with the same person has always been to bang other people on the side, duh.
OKCupid is a bitch, ran into someone at a bar the other night who I recognized from the site as my top match and I think he recognized me too. Porkpal is good, Montreal was fantastic, last night we got really high and watched Lord of the Rings and I think I saw god. So far it's not a big deal that he's in love with me but we'll see. I'd feel a little bad if I pursued dates with other people and I dunno if I'm ready for that, but it also seems pointless because I can't see myself getting along as well with someone else, certainly not physically, fffuuuu!
OKCupid is a bitch, ran into someone at a bar the other night who I recognized from the site as my top match and I think he recognized me too. Porkpal is good, Montreal was fantastic, last night we got really high and watched Lord of the Rings and I think I saw god. So far it's not a big deal that he's in love with me but we'll see. I'd feel a little bad if I pursued dates with other people and I dunno if I'm ready for that, but it also seems pointless because I can't see myself getting along as well with someone else, certainly not physically, fffuuuu!
I actually do think I am a sociopath when it comes to dating, and that I am not "safe" to get involved with because I tend to leave a trail of disappointment. I also think a lot of people think this way but would never admit it!
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I agree. I've done the same with exes. The worst part is it would be at the most serious times. I broke up with my most recent ex a couple weeks after she told me she loved me. Something about that kind of investment and commitment just bothers me. It annoys the hell out of me. The more serious the relationship, the more I think about fucking other girls, even though I don't particularly enjoy sex. But then when I'm out of a relationship, I get hella asexual and wish for the ability to commit and not leave. Bleh. Forever alone.
MasterOLightning
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I've never been bored with someone sexually, and that includes one relationship that lasted over two years. Bored emotionally, sure. At that point, regular sex is enough to keep me hanging around, because being single is a gamble in that regard. As of now, I've gone harder in to alcoholism, which is only harmful to me and doesn't fuck up anyone else.
SkeletonWitch
Morphine Child
Went clubbing two weeks ago. Pulled a Rajesh Kuthrapali (those who watch The Big Bang Theory would know what I'm talking about).
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Morphine Child
Met this really hot chick during a Moonspell/Katatonia concert in this godforsaken land. We headbanged, we cuddled, etc. I added her on facebook. Turns out she was 14. I couldn't look at myself in the mirror.
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Morphine Child
Met this friend of mine who's my age, and is newly married. He's young. We discussed stuff, his discussions were mostly centered around life and work, while mine were about video games, japanese anime, psychedelic rock, and football. Didn't know who to pity more, him or myself.
SkeletonWitch
Morphine Child
Intelligence in a girl is a perk that I do not only appreciate, but it also sexually excites me.
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