Males and Females

[Zephyrus]

I suppose I'll rewrite my OKC page once I get to Iowa. Though all the fatty goth chicks that look at my page probably won't change.

 

[SentinelSlain]

Women tend to like to cling as 'loose friends' with guys with notable 'hair' of different varieties and slightly quirky social behavior for some reason.

I think I had that in high school for a while due to near jewfro.

 

[The Ozzman]

I can't believe this thread is closing in on 400 pages. There's some epic shit in here.

Better experiment (they kinda did this on house): Random pic of a male model (although try to make it look not stolen), but make the profile really nerdy and loserish. Then, awkwardly message girls and see what happens.

Was that the one where they did speed dating? That's when Chase acted like he was a complete idiot loser and he got like 30 numbers.

 

[waif]

Yeah. I found that unrealistic, because Chase would have gotten at least 40 numbers on his way there.

 

[Cythraul]

edit: blah! why do I post in this thread? I always regret it. It's like my dumping ground for all my weepiness.

 

[Master_Yoda77]

Aw

 

[Jimmy... Dead.]

Female.

 

[King Richard]

hawt

 

[Satanstoenail]

Fuck. Yes.

 

[The Ozzman]

hawt

Fuck. Yes.

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Here's another

 

[Satanstoenail]

Why is she brandishing a cleaver? More of other girl please.

 

[Jimmy... Dead.]

@ozz

 

[The Ozzman]

k

 

[Manic Ferocity]

So I've been dating my girlfriend for a year and a half now and we're at the point where everything turns into a fight. Also, I find myself coping with jealousy by fantasizing about my ex (who was and still may be very into me). This would be ok and probably fairly normal if it weren't for the fact that I've started to become (secretly) obsessive about it and feeling the urge to talk to her. I do love my girlfriend very much and I have a lot more in common with her but I guess I'm majorly missing the chase. Will this pass with time or am I getting myself into a bad situation?

 

[Vimana]

You're getting yourself into a bad situation.

 

[Manic Ferocity]

Just to clear the air, I'm not good friends with her or in contact with her and the fantasies are emotional not sexual. It's just the desire to talk to her that is troubling me and, in some way, making me emotionally apathetic towards the state of my relationship with my girlfriend (as I think "hey, if we break up I can just get back in contact with my ex", etc). Basically, I've let a coping mechanism for problems in my current relationship turn into a strong desire to rekindle old fires.

 

[Jimmy... Dead.]

It's all good dude, you're a douche. Once you take comfort in that it's ssooo much easier.

 

[Manic Ferocity]

Thanks for the comforting vote of confidence.

 

[Krigloch the Furious]

probably shouldnt be sleeping with another coworker, but oh well.

 

[viewerfromnihil]

Just to clear the air, I'm not good friends with her or in contact with her and the fantasies are emotional not sexual. It's just the desire to talk to her that is troubling me and, in some way, making me emotionally apathetic towards the state of my relationship with my girlfriend (as I think "hey, if we break up I can just get back in contact with my ex", etc). Basically, I've let a coping mechanism for problems in my current relationship turn into a strong desire to rekindle old fires.

No, you've only just realized that your desire to rekindle old fires is your coping mechanism. Why don't you just dump this chick if the only way you can stay with her is to think about other women? Who care's if you've been together for a year and a half? That's irrelevant. Unless, of course, she's supporting you financially or you're married.