Males and Females

KafkaX said:
Depends on the relationship...If I personally was dating a chick and was really into her and she was sending nudes and talking all crazy to another dude, Id not tolerate that shit...Even though she didnt touch him and I wouldnt classify it as "cheating" per se, but that shit is definitely grounds to send her packin.
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I don't know of many men that would be okay with their partner hanging out in front of others naked or even exposed to any degree.
 
Did he ever have it?

Oh man PP's birthday festivities were hugely successful. Culminated in me falling asleep outside the bar in a chair and getting kicked out, shoving my way past the bouncer (I'm a slightish female with no training in martial arts, some bouncer) to get back in, and one of our friends mistaking a passed-out guy on the sidewalk for a dummy and kicking him really hard in the head.
 
I haven't heard a peep out of Ashley since March 21st. I sent her a text on her birthday May 14th, no response. Today, out of the blue, I get three messages:

"Hi
Are you married?
Or engaged?"

what.
the.
fuck.
 
Today I asked my ex polish mutant if she still likes me. And she said something positive if I understood it correctly. I will see her tomorrow if she doesn't fucking back up as always. I offered her to repair the toilet paper ear-rings that she broke. And she will give me some tobacco from Poland. I can't wait for that.
 
unknown said:
it's a trap!
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It's all settled now. There was some miscommunication between her and her father. Essentially he was trying to plant seeds in her mind in my favor and she somehow ended up thinking I was engaged or married or something. God bless her father, fighting the good fight. lol

And having said all of that, I have a date next Friday. holla
 
I had a breakdown today. Fell into the ex's trap. Got back with her.

That day, all contact cut with me. What the fuuuuck.
 
This goes out to all my dating-site-using niggaz:

How do you go about approaching women, how do you try to come off in your profile, and (most importantly) how successful are you?

I've been using OKCupid for the last two weeks. In my profile I tried to come off as intelligent, funny, and I guess cute. I approach women by trying to find ones with whom I get a high match score whose profiles say they reply frequently, I read over their entire profile, look at pictures, see how they respond to the questions the site lets you answer, and then send them a message based around some common trait or interest. If they respond to this I try to keep a conversation going while gradually shifting towards personal getting-to-know-each-other stuff.

This has not worked. At all.
I've gotten responses from probably a third of the girls I've messaged. One girl, after one message, suggested we meet up for a drink...then called it off randomly. Another abruptly stopped responding for no apparent reason. The best I've done was playing facebook and chatting with some chick on facebook, but there wasn't a whole lot of interest from either side, I think.

Any suggestions to improve my game? In my profile I mention that I just got out of a long-term relationship, and that I'm not looking to get serious. In the "looking for" section I list short-term dating, casual sex, new friends, and activity partners. Should I maybe add in long-term dating and take out the casual sex?

My actual goal is obviously sex. My ideal would be going on a few dates with a girl and then porking, calling her, and porking more, but not getting serious. Also definitely into meeting once, porking, and not calling. Or calling, whatever. Point is, I'm not trying to be a shallow douche and I'm not unwilling to try and engage emotionally with these girls or put time in, but my end goal is sex, although I'd be open to the idea of a relationship if the right girl came along.

I know some of you fuckers use dating sites, so...let's hear it.
 
Yeah, I tend to do the same thing as you. I look at their profile and ask them questions after finding common ground. I attempt to ask them about things I find interesting about their profile that I am not familiar with, hoping they'd be happy to explain things they like or their philosophies, but I rarely get a response.

I've been changing my game a bit by just saying lame ass shit like "Hey, you are cute :)" or something queer as fuck, and that doesn't seem to work as well. I even message some rather unattractive girls just to see if the problem is my message or my profile. Not that I don't pursue these unattractive girls either. I'm not attractive, why should I desire only attractive girls?

Fucking Sluts
 
I have the same reply rate as waif and I don't have casual sex on my list. I assume that women will deselect men for having it but not for not having it, even if it's what they're after.
 
I'm attractive as balls and I try not to come off like I'm just spamming, but I still have a low reply rate. I'm considering taking casual sex off, adding long-term dating, and removing references to the break-up and my reluctance to get into a long term relationship from my profile.
 
I remember that Rick put something along the lines of 'Women don't have the balls to actually message guys about their profile, so what's the point of actually making one of these?' or something and he got an increased number of responses.

It was basically calling out women for being way too selective
 
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