Did I mention that she proudly threw it in my face that this guy wanted to bang her when mentioning that he was coming to see her?
Zephyrus, it's harder to move on when you're not the one who did the "moving on" first.
In any case, I'm honestly just shy around women. I don't know how to talk to them.
Sounds like a test. You should've acted like you didn't care. Tell that cunt to make you a chicken sandwich.
But the better option would be to just cut ties completely. I mean, what on Earth were you thinking with this 'friends with benefits' thing?
Yeah, that shit is rough.
ps - feminism is retarded
Every time I read this thread I start cutting myself.
Well it's pretty mutually understood that we can't get back together. There's not a whole lot more I could do to mess things up so if she's disappointed when I don't want anything more, that's her problem. I really think she just wants to get laid though.
I'd have an easier time turning her down if sex with her wasn't mind-blowing. I'd rather have meaningless sex on a friendship basis than the extremely hostile relationship that we had.
I'd like to know how well the males on this forum resist when someone they're insanely attracted to throws herself at them.
Thanks for pretentiously stating the obvious but I'm actually not trying to debate whether or not my decision was logical (which I know damn well it wasn't).
It's like when people watch reality television in order to feel better about themselves.
I got a message on OKC from a hot girl that simply goes "where should i go in iowa city to meet spiritual people". No caps, no punctuation.
Jesus Christ why do I always attract good-looking yet batshit lunatics?
I should reply, "my apartment."
This was my ex when I met her. She was 240 but lost 70 pounds and had really wide hips and now looks like a fucking knockout
I just spent most of the evening making out with a chick
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I almost messaged her a dick pic tbh
Of course you recognise it now. Maybe you need people to blatantly tell you not to embrace such stupidity to avoid these situations in the future.
I didn't ever think it was a good idea but it was easy to make excuses to justify it. Knowing that something is a bad idea does not necessarily decrease the desire to do it. How about you stop being a faggot. This is the males and females thread. I don't see any reason why I can't come here to vent about my mistakes.