Males and Females

[damnromulans]

That is a good decision on her part of wean herself off those meds. The longer she takes them the more they would take over her personality and handicap her brain from being able to enjoy life without them. I'd stick by her side in this...cold turkey is rough, but in the end she will recover and will deeply appreciate your devotion to see her through this.

Or become suicidal, which I would pray is not the case and that she is not that imbalanced.

It's rough dealing with loved ones with questionable mental health. My dad is on "life-support" SSRIs - he feels juuust a little better than "I want to kill myself" and his baseline is "very depressed" - combined with other ailments + slowly developing dementia we have good reason to be concerned about him.

When I was young he used to be manic depressive and stay up for days/go on crazy exercise binges. I'm not sure if it's age or lithium or what that eliminated the mania from the equation. I do know he stopped working when I was about 6 and has been on SSD since.

 

[monoxide_child]

so
yesterday i'm hanging out with one of those girls that kinda randomly travels across the country, she spent all afternoon telling people "i've only been in Texas for 3 days" and then last night i fucked her

i officially feel like a slut now

this^^ girl's been "glued-to-my-hip" and telling me that she's "not going to have sex with other dudes" so i guess she's my girlfriend now

 

[Master_Yoda77]

How disgusting is this one now?

 

[monoxide_child]

How disgusting is this one now?

actually
she's way hotter than the other ones
from the neck up she looks like what Jean Tripplehorn would have looked like at 10 or 12, with that whole "eternally-young-face" thing going on, she's already 29 with a bunch of people thinking she was still 14 or 15, where she's still gonna get carded when she has grandchildren

from the neck down
she's gorgeous
she's got a much smaller waist than the one that you guys said looked like "a thin person with an innertube inside her shirt" (the blue-haired boy's ex that just broke up with me)

and she's more hourglass-shaped and better proportioned than the top-heavy one with the DD tits and the buns-of-steel (the one that broke down and cried in the middle of the road about 13 months ago)

and her boobs are alot bigger than the tiny pointed tits of the girl with the facial tattoos (the one i had a one-night-stand with about a month ago)

this girl is as-sexy-as hell

 

[EffigyForgotten]

I would like to see pics of this girl.

 

[monoxide_child]

I would like to see pics of this girl.

there's pics of this girl on my friend Bobby's cell phone

i'll post pics eventually

 

[Eligos]

I would like to see pics of this girl.

God dammit.

Are we really starting this cycle over.

So recall that girl I mentioned a month ago who asked me to "keep her in mind" because she's interested but still in a relationship. She's quickly become a close friend and I'm starting to find myself infatuated with her. I'm usually pretty good at having lady friends but I'm dealing with a lot of inner conflict over this right now. I'm gonna do my best to live in the moment, but if it continues to play out like an uphill battle I'm gonna have to issue her an ultimatum this week.

I hate being that guy.

 

[Funerary_Doom]

@Krow: To me it sounds like the girl is very hurt and stressed. You probably know this but it's usually not a good idea to "go for it" when a girl is so broken up like that. Also, with you having a girlfriend already, it might be cool to set boundaries and just tell her that it really isn't a good time for you to be confused. All this is pretty obvious lol but sometimes it's good to hear it, I guess.

@Eligos: Again probably needless to say but I always think it's pretty suspect when a girl is in a relationship but is still looking for something else. The ultimatum is probably the best option, honestly because its really not OK to sorta have your cake and eat it too...

 

[KafkaX]

Yeah dude, what the fuck is up with her asking you to "keep her in mind"? Sounds to me like she is expecting you to take a number...Fuck that shit.

 

[whiskey funeral]

Yeah dude, what the fuck is up with her asking you to "keep her in mind"? Sounds to me like she is expecting you to take a number...Fuck that shit.

What he said. You can do better, Kevin.

Is this the one I made the "ditch that bitch" comment about a few pages ago?

 

[monoxide_child]

i feel like i'm living in an Old Testament pagan city

-i'm dating 2 girls at once,
-each girl has another boyfriend
-these 2 guys know each other
-the 2 guys have both known me longer than they've been dating the 2 girls
-one of the girls has already had sex with me despite only having been in Texas for a week
-the other girl is dating the ex-boyfriend of a 3rd girl that just broke up with me

my life really fucked up right now

 

[PhlegethonVeins]

A girl I run into a couple times a week(due to work) and chat / flirt lightly with asked me as of last night to hit up a couple bars with her tonight. I told her I'd get back to her. Thing is I actually find her rather interesting and cute. My friend more or less made the call for me, as were hitting up those exact bars anyway to celebrate his birthday.

Part of me is actually afraid of things going well, as she has that certain something that catches my attention on a bit of a deeper level, and I really should be avoiding things that could elevate past casual for now. Oh well, we shall see where this goes.

 

[Jimmy... Dead.]

Yeah dude, what the fuck is up with her asking you to "keep her in mind"? Sounds to me like she is expecting you to take a number...Fuck that shit.

Ha, exactly. This is the creature we're to deal with.

 

[Vimana]

God dammit.

Are we really starting this cycle over.

So recall that girl I mentioned a month ago who asked me to "keep her in mind" because she's interested but still in a relationship. She's quickly become a close friend and I'm starting to find myself infatuated with her. I'm usually pretty good at having lady friends but I'm dealing with a lot of inner conflict over this right now. I'm gonna do my best to live in the moment, but if it continues to play out like an uphill battle I'm gonna have to issue her an ultimatum this week.

I hate being that guy.

I've been in this position before, and I think it's a bad idea. This girl would be affectionate with me, tell me not to get discouraged, that she wasn't sure about her relationship, that she really liked me, etc. The thing is, she was ready to move from one guy to the next, and I realized that as soon as I got her, I'd have to deal with being the next dude she leaves for another guy. It's not fun.

If you really want her and you want it to work, wait for her to break up with her boyfriend for her own reasons that don't include another guy.

 

[monoxide_child]

girl asked me to "keep her in mind" because she's interested but still in a relationship

stay the hell away from her

 

[whiskey funeral]

This thread needs less wussy shit and more awesome stories from m_c.

 

[zabu of nΩd]

Recommending that someone go off their meds is often way riskier than people think. Don't be cocky.

 

[Master_Yoda77]

This thread needs less wussy shit and more awesome stories from m_c.

No, not from M_C. sloughfegkillers needs to post more stories of his sexual exploits. The ones that he's shared in the past were fucking hilarious. I now use the term "behemoth" to refer to really ugly/fat girls thanks to him.

 

[Eligos]

I looked back at the message because I wanted to make sure I was recalling correctly. I have to admit, what she said was a bit more conscionable than I remembered. She said she wanted to focus on creating an awesome friendship for now, and where that ended up was only for time to tell (with a bit more detail). I feel a bit better about the situation after digging through my inbox, but I do still find myself pining for this girl from time to time.

 

[SentinelSlain]

I need to find me another slavic babe.