I'm probably a little on the fence when it comes to racism, I really don't mean it and I've worked with a couple black guys that I would still gladly call friends, guys that would always joke around with you or cover for you if you need it, but I just don't think I could hang out with them irl. I've just never met the smart ass black guy that loves metal and horror movies to have a bromance with, I guess. I also have a communication issue with Ebonics but that's another matter.
And for the sake of the lady, I would never bring one of another ethnicity home to my family. It just wouldnt be fair to her even if i find find women of other races attractive (i do) But, again, don't get me wrong. I'm fairly happy with my bipolar white woman.