Males and Females

That's all well and good, as long as you're on the same page and one person isn't secretly hoping for something different.

This. This. This. Laura, you're the bestest, just saying. Why don't you just be a psychologist or something?

@unknown: you're totally right. no matter how straightforward i think i am, it's still not best to assume people know what you want. bahh, confrontations are the worse.:erk:


Mine is kinda the same, he refuses to go to family or friend parties for holidays too. Which I am kinda cool with, because I'm not into sitting next to one person all night when there's food and conversation to be had.

I'm not sure if it's related or not, but last year for v-day I spent about $300 on him/ us. Hotel room, fun-filled day with all the bells, etc. Since then I've hardly spent any money, and showed zero interest in celebrating holidays with him, truth be told because I'm bitter and totally got sick of him being so disinterested. But of course, as all fuckin human beings are likely to do, it has made him want to do things and celebrate more.

It's shitty, but I'm pretty sure men need to feel like they're losing you once in awhile or something. Human beings in general, I guess, just really subconsciously enjoy the drama of being a pain in the fuckin ass until the other person throws in the towel.

Wow, that's crazy! Maybe you're right, i'd hate to think people subconsciously want drama though. Can't living just be easy?

My fam is really tight knit & we all drink (and recently smoke) a lot. So I kind of do have a problem when i have to force him to go out with us on b-days and shit just because it's sort of a tradition. We don't always go out. Sometimes we just buy booze, sit around and talk music and politics, and or play video games. I guess one man's treasure is another man's diarrhea, though.

Point is there's absolutely nothing wrong with being a little romantic/cheesy/ sweet by doing what your partner likes once in awhile.
 
so...
i'm fingerbanging my chef on a regular basis, and while this woman's dying my hair this morning, for some weird-ass reason, it randomly struck my as being as-funny-as-fucking-hell that this woman i'm fingering won't touch my dick, and after going into the shower to rinse the my hair, i came out with the towel around my head with a hard-on just to mess with her, me being pantsless with with a hard-on was making her laugh her fucking ass off, i walked around naked smiling, shaking my hips, waving my dick at her, making her laugh for a whole half-an-hour

although
now that i've been downtown for a whole hour, the fact that she never touches my dick is actually kinda pissing me off

i just never say anything to her about it because i've got someone else giving me blowjobs

so
seriously asking for opinions here
should i feel pissed off that i'm fingering someone that won't touch my dick??
should i feel guilty that i'm secretly fingering someone that has a boyfriend??

my girlfriend is totally comfortable with me fingering this woman
and this woman's boyfriend is a total jack-ass, if those 2 things mean anything
 
so...
i'm fingerbanging my chef on a regular basis, and while this woman's dying my hair this morning, for some weird-ass reason, it randomly struck my as being as-funny-as-fucking-hell that this woman i'm fingering won't touch my dick, and after going into the shower to rinse the my hair, i came out with the towel around my head with a hard-on just to mess with her, me being pantsless with with a hard-on was making her laugh her fucking ass off, i walked around naked smiling, shaking my hips, waving my dick at her, making her laugh for a whole half-an-hour

although
now that i've been downtown for a whole hour, the fact that she never touches my dick is actually kinda pissing me off

i just never say anything to her about it because i've got someone else giving me blowjobs

so
seriously asking for opinions here
should i feel pissed off that i'm fingering someone that won't touch my dick??
should i feel guilty that i'm secretly fingering someone that has a boyfriend??

my girlfriend is totally comfortable with me fingering this woman
and this woman's boyfriend is a total jack-ass, if those 2 things mean anything



Question : do you feel guilty for doing it? Coz it sure seems to me like she doesn't or she wouldn't let you do it to her.
Question: why do you think she won't touch you there??
And be honest, coz that's how problems get solved :)
 
so...
i'm fingerbanging my chef on a regular basis, and while this woman's dying my hair this morning, for some weird-ass reason, it randomly struck my as being as-funny-as-fucking-hell that this woman i'm fingering won't touch my dick, and after going into the shower to rinse the my hair, i came out with the towel around my head with a hard-on just to mess with her, me being pantsless with with a hard-on was making her laugh her fucking ass off, i walked around naked smiling, shaking my hips, waving my dick at her, making her laugh for a whole half-an-hour

although
now that i've been downtown for a whole hour, the fact that she never touches my dick is actually kinda pissing me off

i just never say anything to her about it because i've got someone else giving me blowjobs

so
seriously asking for opinions here
should i feel pissed off that i'm fingering someone that won't touch my dick??
should i feel guilty that i'm secretly fingering someone that has a boyfriend??

my girlfriend is totally comfortable with me fingering this woman
and this woman's boyfriend is a total jack-ass, if those 2 things mean anything
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There's this bitch I had a french class with and I'll be having that class every week and I don't really know what to talk about with her. I'm like out of order. A senior. She messaged me today about school shit but I need to derail these dumb conversations and just talk about about something other than school.
 
My favorite place to have sex is where there's a good chance people will find us. He doesn't share my titillating interest in possibly getting caught, so it doesn't happen often...

I'm the kind of person who answers the phone, depending who it is, in the middle of the deed just to try hiding it.
 
MasterpieceMesias, whoever you are, I'd be curious to know what percentage of thoughts you convey without the help of stupid gifs.
 
My favorite place to have sex is where there's a good chance people will find us. He doesn't share my titillating interest in possibly getting caught, so it doesn't happen often...

I'm the kind of person who answers the phone, depending who it is, in the middle of the deed just to try hiding it.

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The strangest place I've ever had sex was on top this thing, which is at UC Santa Cruz and pretty out in the open. It was daytime but when school was out so there weren't a lot of people on campus. We thought we could get away with it. Of course a kid comes running up to play on it, mom chasing in horror :blush:

In general public sex is a rush... until you get caught.