Zephyrus
Tyrants and Slaves
I was on OKC for a couple months, and it seemed a waste of time. All of my partners have been the result of mutual friends.
First two were from plunging myself into "Spam my friend requests" groups on there, those were the E-relationships. I got good nudes and skypes out of those (no I don't have the nudes anymore). I don't count the first one half the time, because she was Satan.
I was on OKC for a couple months, and it seemed a waste of time. All of my partners have been the result of mutual friends.
Or they just don't list "casual sex" out of a socially programmed fear of being perceived/treated as a slut. Plus they do that to filter out desperate creeps.
I blame unknown because it actually worked for him and he keeps reminding us.
One of the things I feel most deceived about as an adult is the idea that you get to have plenty of opportunities to meet women through mutual friends. This has never happened and seems unlikely to happen. All the girls I'm friends with are friends with me because they are bad at socializing with their peers. They will never be able to set me up with anyone.
Other women are completely terrible wingmen.
Only a few girls have actually tried to be a wingman for me. Zephyrus's girlfriend is probably the best at it tbh. The problem is that we both get too drunk after slammin' back PBRs.