Males and Females

[SentinelSlain]

This girl I'm seeing looks hot in ankle boots and tight jeans.

 

[Carpe Mortem]

^D'awwww. Dudes enamored, won't shut up about the bitch. Probably butthurt I referred to such an angel as bitch.

 

[SentinelSlain]

We'll see.

 

[Huldra]

Pretty sure Huldra is a lady, per our discussion not long ago. Never would have guessed otherwise though.

See? Someone gets it. Also, the comment about being in a polygamous relationship with my fingers vs. my hand should've been a give away.

Also. Come on. "huldra".
http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hulder

 

[HamburgerBoy]

Also, the comment about being in a polygamous relationship with my fingers vs. my hand should've been a give away.

Nah, it's great to switch things up by just using a knuckle or two up against the underside of the glans and rubbing/pressing. It's our version of the clit, after all.

 

[Onder]

Ya know what carrying a conversation is to a woman? listening and asking questions. Just get yourself a good beer, maybe take a Vicodin, sit back and rope-a-dope that motherfucker 'til she wears herself out.

 

[Onder]

This girl I'm seeing looks hot in ankle boots and tight jeans.

<pr>pic request</pr>

 

[SentinelSlain]

no

 

[Nephilim96]

Stop talking about how hot she is if you're not going to post a picture bruh.

 

[Addo_Of_Nex]

Goddammit Cammy, I'm so sorry to hear of your predicament. I have nothing to offer other than nondescript advice about working through things in the most non-confrontational manner possible and retaining whatever positive connections that can be salvaged at this point. I obviously barely know either of you, but from what I gathered from when I met you guys, you both seemed very mature and rational; the sort of people capable of dealing with a situation like this in an agreeable manner.

It seems a bit disingenuous to say it to someone over the internet you barely know, but like Vimana and Eligos said, time trumps all; and I get the impression that you'll be just fine in time given your personality. Keep your head up.

 

[waif]

If I were single, having the desire to hook up with a previous ex (one of the good-looking ones, that is) seems reasonable, but another go at a relationship would be a waste of time.

Nothing wrong with banging exes. The sex in relationships is, on average, better than casual sex, but comes with a lot of strings. Banging an ex is like getting relationship sex with no strings. Unless your ex is not entirely emotionally stable, but who ever heard of such a thing?

 

[Hannibal_Lecter]

Nothing wrong with banging exes.

But only after you've gone out and banged someone else, ofcourse

When You break up with your sex partner, you have to go through banging (or maybe even dating) someone else (maybe even banging multiple people) before you can really even attempt to set up any kind of FWB-with-an-ex, otherwise you're just making a real-life Ross-and-Rachel thing

 

[waif]

Yeah agreed there. The post-breakup one-night-stand is crucial.

 

[Funerary_Doom]

Goddammit Cammy, I'm so sorry to hear of your predicament. I have nothing to offer other than nondescript advice about working through things in the most non-confrontational manner possible and retaining whatever positive connections that can be salvaged at this point. I obviously barely know either of you, but from what I gathered from when I met you guys, you both seemed very mature and rational; the sort of people capable of dealing with a situation like this in an agreeable manner.

It seems a bit disingenuous to say it to someone over the internet you barely know, but like Vimana and Eligos said, time trumps all; and I get the impression that you'll be just fine in time given your personality. Keep your head up.

Thanks Guy, I really do appreciate the advice and kind words. Internet folks offer some of the best advice, not disingenuous at all. Time is definitely on my side with this one.

@ Zeph: thanks for the offer, really appreciate it. I'll keep it in mind if I can't figure anything out by then.

 

[Huldra]

Has anyone ever tried FetLife?

 

[unknown]

I knew a couple of people on it. They liked it, but used it more for hooking up and exploring kinks (obviously) rather than trying to find a relationship

 

[Serjeant Grumbles]

I don't know; I don't want to risk running into this guy.

 

[Hannibal_Lecter]

Has anyone ever tried FetLife?

I'll probably try FetLife eventually, just haven't gotten around to it yet

 

[waif]

I actually just joined FetLife. It appears to be less of a dating site and more Facebook for kinksters, but still worth a look if you're into that scene.

 

[MasterOLightning]

Fetlife definitely seems like a social network first, a porn site second, and a dating site third. It's useful to have a profile, since sometimes you can use it to see girls from OkCupid naked.