Males and Females

[Manic Ferocity]

Haven't any of you at least TRIED to make things work and test things out in a relationship, even if you subconsciously know that it might backfire? Kinda what happened here to me with my enabling. It's not like she took my keys at gun point. She made most of this look like she was only trying to help at first and the hostility towards me just became worse with time. She became significantly more angry when she began realizing that I seriously didn't want to be around her anymore. I might've been too dumb to see through the other distractions but being diagnosed by my degree-less girlfriend with Alzberger's as a way to explain why I didn't fucking feel like coming over to cradle her whiny ass pretty much says it all to me.

Fistful of vomits always triumph in the end anyway. She should've known better.

 

[Carpe Mortem]

Moral of the story bro: only date chicks with real hobbies that don't involve pictures of themselves. Lest YOU become her hobby.

 

[Dak]

They do if they're hysterical self-diagnosing women with weak minds.

What I mean is that it was most likely a pre-existing issue.

 

[Manic Ferocity]

Moral of the story bro: only date chicks with real hobbies that don't involve pictures of themselves. Lest YOU become her hobby.

Hahaha this might be some of the best insight I've seen on my situation. Cheers!

 

[Master_Yoda77]

In regards to hobbies.

 

[Jimmy... Dead.]

I'm going to a strip club tonight with some acquaintances. It's gonna get weird but the alcohol should help with that

 

[CiG]

Haven't any of you at least TRIED to make things work and test things out in a relationship, even if you subconsciously know that it might backfire?

Yeah man, I have. That's how I know it doesn't work and it's not worth the effort.

 

[Manic Ferocity]

You should retitle your username to condescendingcassetteisgod. Has a nice ring to it.

 

[CiG]

I'm condescending but I wasn't this time.

 

[Manic Ferocity]

I'm glad that you're the one that gets to decide that.

 

[The Ozzman]

You should retitle your username to condescendingcassetteisgod. Has a nice ring to it.

Your forget he knows everything and he's never been wrong in his entire life

 

[CiG]

Asks for advice, gets it, somehow I'm a cunt though?

Feel free to date people that ruin your life.

 

[The Ozzman]

Asks for advice, gets it, somehow I'm a cunt though?

Feel free to date people that ruin your life.

The problem is you're condescending and don't know it

 

[CiG]

Your forget he knows everything and he's never been wrong in his entire life

On the contrary, I've been wrong plenty of times, that's the whole point.
I've made huge, retarded mistakes and that's how I know it doesn't work. It's not worth being miserable just to give someone a chance.

The problem is you're condescending and don't know it

Who cares.

 

[HamburgerBoy]

I don't find CASSETTE to be remotely condescending tbh. I'd let him be my girlfriend.

 

[The Ozzman]

Who cares.

lol ok

 

[CiG]

Also I'm pretty sure I admitted a few comments ago that I am condescending, just not this time.

Your problem seems to be reading comprehension.

 

[Manic Ferocity]

On the contrary, I've been wrong plenty of times, that's the whole point.
I've made huge, retarded mistakes and that's how I know it doesn't work. It's not worth being miserable just to give someone a chance.

Ok, well I felt like I was the one being given the chance at the time so I tried rolling with the punches to help her trust me. There was nothing else clearly "wrong" going on in our relationship from her end at that point so I felt like I didn't really have anything to lose.

To be honest, I was probably so glad to get away from my ex's "I can aggressively flirt in front of your face and if you get mad, you're being controlling" dynamic that being smothered felt good for once.

 

[Dak]

Never expect to be able to fix a person. It actually can happen, but it's a long and painful process and usually unfruitful anyway.

 

[CiG]

That's the horror of it, people like that tend to play on our capacity for sympathy and empathy, then we end up with scars ourselves that go on to ruin or potentially ruin our own future relationships with reasonably normal people.
It creates a cycle of destruction.