Males and Females

[Manic Ferocity]

Finding a girl capable of making you happy is a gamble, and even when you find one, it's not like she's not going to also make you miserable sometimes (or often).

Booze is pretty much a gamble too, and the best kind at that. It goes hand in hand with playing 80s metal fucking LOUD until your faggot short-haired neighbor complains. He comes to your door and tells you it's too loud, but you crack a bottle over his head and turn it up even louder. Happiness indeed.

 

[The Butt]

Booze is great when you find the sweet spot for each kind of alcohol. For me its like thirteen or so beers. Vodka can get fucked. In the ass.

 

[Manic Ferocity]

Whisky or go home. I like beer too but downing 10-12 gives me that nasty, full body soggy feeling in the morning.

 

[CiG]

Chase whisky with beer.

 

[Jimmy... Dead.]

fav kind of butt. just a pawgtastic sandwich

 

[Master_Yoda77]

Tequila.

 

[arg]

the single best product of mexico

 

[Master_Yoda77]

Um, latinas?

 

[Manic Ferocity]

So, I made another OKC profile to take my mind off everything. Like always, I filled out my profile to the brim in exaggerated elitist Gehennah fashion (you would be surprised by how attention grabbing this is).

I ended up messaging a polyamorous girl because I felt the need to rip into her for listening to deathcore, and because she was cute of course. We're actually hitting it off surprisingly well. I know I swore off on all this poly stuff but after escaping the dungeon where I wasn't even allowed to have friends, this doesn't seem so bad. Plus this one is actually single so I wouldn't just be fucking someone else's wife like I was with the last one.

 

[Master_Yoda77]

I've been thinking about remaking an OKC account as well. I had some success with that in the past but stopped because it got really sterile. I still lurk on Tinder because it's something to do while I take a shit, but that place is fucking worthless.

 

[CiG]

You dorks should lurk FetLife.

 

[Manic Ferocity]

I've been thinking about remaking an OKC account as well. I had some success with that in the past but stopped because it got really sterile. I still lurk on Tinder because it's something to do while I take a shit, but that place is fucking worthless.

I've only met someone in person once so far on OKC and it was long distance. It's mostly a joke but tossing around the idea with other girls on there can be amusing and it definitely helps while going through a break up.

Tinder is as retarded as it gets. I don't think I've gotten any replies that weren't spam.

 

[Carpe Mortem]

You dorks should add hot chicks in your friend group on facebook. Sure it's creepy, but it's the new normal, and you can get the 411 ahead of time

 

[The Butt]

You dorks should add hot chicks in your friend group on facebook. Sure it's creepy, but it's the new normal, and you can get the 411 ahead of time

Can attest to this. I actually got with a few girls this way.

I never had any luck with OKC. Was gonna meet up with one girl once, years ago, but then she pretty much dropped off the face of the internet.

 

[The Ozzman]

Yeah, women on those sites are just as flaky as dudes are.

 

[PhlegethonVeins]

Havent understood those sites. I'd think that the majority of the userbase is similar to that of tinder (just an egofeed) without people taking it seriously. What happened to letting shit happen organically?

 

[The Ozzman]

What happened to letting shit happen organically?

How can you 'let shit happen organically' if you're not meeting people? I don't actively try to look for women at bookstores, bars, whatever. Online dating has helped me meet people if anything. I never believe on hitting on women when I'm at the grocery store or whatever. I think it's stupid.

 

[PhlegethonVeins]

How can you 'let shit happen organically' if you're not meeting people? I don't actively try to look for women at bookstores, bars, whatever. Online dating has helped me meet people if anything. I never believe on hitting on women when I'm at the grocery store or whatever. I think it's stupid.

Well, I guess the short answer is you don't let it happen organically if you're not meeting people. One reason to get out there and engage with people in settings that cater to interests and or hobbies, excluding ones required trips out. Hell, even engaging in online forums can sometimes spring something organically.

That said, I understand that depending on location, occupation and lifestyle choices those things can be limited.

 

[Carpe Mortem]

I think what he's saying ozz is that you need to find a local milf fan club so you can meet a nice girl who also loves milfs.

 

[Funerary_Doom]

Being on "the open market" so to speak, is just annoying. Definitely understand.

I'm not even sure if organically meeting someone is a thing nowadays but it's better. To me sending someone a message based off of superficial shit on a website is the same as just walking up to someone at a social event to talk to them without like any prior knowledge of who they are. It's awkward as fuck. If you can visit a place and get to know them like that then ask them out after having legitimate conversations I think dating would be more successful.