Males and Females

[Dak]

I think that's the original intention with men, but they have a rude awakening when the lady supersedes him in every way.

I think your probably right about who is in control once the door at home is closed re: Asian women. I wouldn't be surprised if despite the "rude awakening", most guys that will deal with it will be more than happy if she gives the impression he's in charge when they are together in public. Very shrewd on their part. Nothing beats the BJ/TY combo though.

 

[Baroque]

I prefer white women and typically I don't think people from other races are attractive unless they are 'part white'

Am I racist? Y/N

That statement alone doesn't make you racist.

I think attraction is separate from racism. Or else that means like gay dudes are the most sexist men imaginable. A sexual preference can be different from a non sexual preference.

I have a sexual preference for black and white women and find other races often less attractive. But I can tell when a woman is beautiful of any race. It's just the "stereotypical" asian woman I do find less attractive. That doesn't mean I treat them any differently outside of my bed though.

 

[Funerary_Doom]

I don't think I have a race type and can tell if someone's attractive by their features and proportions. However, even awkward proportions like small head, hook nose and no chin can sometimes look fine on certain people. Weird little imperfections are endearing sometimes

I think living in a city like NYC makes you exposed to different races more and I think the more you see different types of people the more attractive they become to you.

White women are always in tbh, but I do feel social media does come into play exposing different types (sometimes to an almost nauseating degree but I get it) and making people more curious about them. In high school it was painful to date because the people I was into would whip out their laundry list of what they don't like physically and I'd fit that bill like a damn glove Now things are a little different and I don't think it's because I've changed much at all but that people's views have changed a bit due to just more exposure.

People should be able to like what they like and not have to feel bad for it, though. Physically I think I tend to like taller men but that doesn't mean that shorter men aren't desirable.

 

[The Ozzman]

But I can tell when a woman is beautiful of any race. It's just the "stereotypical" asian woman I do find less attractive. That doesn't mean I treat them any differently outside of my bed though.

100% agree

 

[rusty water]

Some women think that `hovering` is an acceptable way to use a toilet. Theres at least one and possibly around five of them at the place where I work that `hover` over the toilet seat when using it ( a single, shared toilet in the office ). Of course they see it as more hygienic for themselves, it is completely selfish and they clearly have a complex that other peoples toilets have germs on them that can make your árse melt. I have weighed up what is happening, and I think that the culprits(s) are clinging onto the sink and then lowering themselves into a sort of Kangaroo posture.The thing is, that I think they know the mess that they accidentally and often make by spraying it all over the toilet and the wall and floor behind the toilet, making life hell for other users and more particularly the cleaner Ladies, they know it will likely be blamed on the men! Ironically because of these Ladies hovering, everyone else has to start hovering also, so as not to get the mess on them from the Ladies hovering. The company ought to have a `full contact` clause built into the terms of employment and some training for them. But, that and other pet hates of them aside, I would rather work with a full company of Ladies, one with no males at all, because men are ugly, senseless, aggressive monkeys. Women shave their eyebrows off and then paint them back on again! Id accept that over working alongside sweaty, smelly, Gorillas. I certainly do not want to look at men, they are vile. So just Ladies for me ty, despite all their weaknesses and questionable habbits.

 

[Krow]

Never hover. I did once in an emergency room bathroom because I had to shit so bad I thought I might die and the bathroom was already disgusting. My blast radius encompassed most of the toilet, the floor, and the wall. The angle provided did however spare my pants.

Realizing I could not make right what I had done with the given implements, I wiped my ass and quickly left the scene of the devastation.

 

[rusty water]

Never hover. I did once in an emergency room bathroom because I had to shit so bad I thought I might die and the bathroom was already disgusting. My blast radius encompassed most of the toilet, the floor, and the wall. The angle provided did however spare my pants.

Realizing I could not make right what I had done with the given implements, I wiped my ass and quickly left the scene of the devastation.

That is the most entertaining, funny and well writen piece I have read this month, and I have read two books this month.

 

[The Ozzman]

It's your fucking butthole. They are willing to have dudes put their dick in it and spread that shit but they can't place that shit on a toilet? Yeah fuck those bitches.

It's a designated out hole you stupid bitches.

 

[Internally Deformed]

Why do I find white skin so much more beautiful on a woman?

I consider myself both rational and liberal, I don't know of any specific belief I have that would lead me toward this prejudice, and I regularly message non-white women on dating sites -- yet my jaw just drops for white skin in a way that it doesn't for skin of other colors.

I've considered that this preference was conditioned into me from a young age, and I've made an effort to persuade myself out of it, but to no avail. It's disturbing.

Don't sweat it, I'm a borderline racist with a thing for ethnic chicks. Your libido and your belief system don't necessarily have to be in synch. When people have to feel guilty about their sexual preferences, it's invariably a sign of something dysfunctional in the culture. Unless they're a paedo anyhow.

 

[CiG]

ethnic chicks

What does that mean exactly? Any woman not white-British?

 

[Internally Deformed]

What does that mean exactly? Any woman not white-British?

It isn't very specific tbh, east asians/south asians/mixed race/middle eastern/whatever else all count. I also don't mind white British, I'm not "unattracted" to them, they just aren't quite as appealing. The only ethnicities I'm not fully down with are slavs and full blacks, but that's still more of a preference than a prohibition.

 

[The Ozzman]

What does that mean exactly? Any woman not white-British?

It isn't very specific tbh, east asians/south asians/mixed race/middle eastern/whatever else all count. I also don't mind white British, I'm not "unattracted" to them, they just aren't quite as appealing. The only ethnicities I'm not fully down with are slavs and full blacks, but that's still more of a preference than a prohibition.

So any non-white British woman

 

[Nephilim96]

I've fetishized every female stereotype imaginable so thoroughly that I am truly colorblind in my racial sexual preferences. I am the face of urbane 21st century male.

Same.

 

[Carpe Mortem]

My long term relationship has been on the rocks for awhile and it's very unfortunate. Not only is it unfortunate that we were perfect together once, it's unfortunate that we live together, and frankly I don't want the headache of a breakup more than anything. I'm trying to improve myself with a new job and going back to school, I really need to just not deal with it. I'm kinda allowing things to take their natural course of slowly withering. I hope he steps up for the first time ever and puts in his fair half of keeping this relationship on track. Maybe kisses my ass for once. If not, oh fucking well, to be honest. I'm sick of a lot of shit, and they're old arguments that have been discussed to death.

Kinda feels good to get that off my chest. I don't have a best friend. I'm really not comfortable sharing that kind of shit with people, we have too many folks in common and it would turn into the popular gossip.

 

[Jimmy... Dead.]

Sometimes taking a break helps. You can both get out of that "us" default and then reassess

 

[arg]

Carpe should just be with me

 

[Jimmy... Dead.]

Sommer Ray

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[Carpe Mortem]

Yeah it can be hard to get distance when you live together. He's just always really pissy he doesn't get enough attention because I'm a workaholic, and that shit is about to get worse since I'm going to school. We will see. Let me put it this way, if our relationship falls down, I'm not stopping to pick it up, no man gonna bring me down even if I love him.

 

[Funerary_Doom]

Taking a break definitely does help. I did it when shit was turning sour and it really helped to bounce both of us back. And if it doesn't.... that's OK too. It's good you're keeping yourself busy and improving on yourself, though. Hopefully he takes the time as well to do the same.

 

[Krow]

So I have an ex girlfriend/long time friend that got into drugs and finally lost everything a few weeks ago. I kind of snickered at the whole situation... Until I saw her downtown today, without any shoes, with nothing at all actually.. It got me in the feels pretty hard...

I talked to her for a while and asked if she needed anything. She asked for food at first but before I got the chance someone brought her some McDonald's. After prying a bit I finally got her to tell me she only owned a pocket knife for protection and a tent she was sleeping in. I bought her a couple pillows, a fleece blanket, and a flashlight.

She looked horrible... Might weigh 90 pounds... Covered in sores and reeking of stink wanting to hug me for bringing her shit. I didn't tell her where I got the stuff and made sure to take the receipts out of the bags so she couldn't return any of it. I told her to please not be the next person I hear about dying of a heroin overdose and to try and stay safe. She hinted around at needing a shower but I ignored it and came home.

Long story short, seeing someone I used to care about a lot that hurt me absolutely destroyed wasn't nearly satisfying at all and was just horrible...