Males and Females
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Carpe Mortem
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I'm the more rational one in my relationship and I gotta tell ya it grates my fucking nerves. Never go for crazy. Never even go for interesting, settle down with a 6/10 who does what you say and you'll be so much happier in the long run. If your libido takes a beating from the uglies just keep the lights off. Or fuck your libido, who cares, it dies on it's own eventually anyways.
MasterpieceMesias
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Dak
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I think this is probably good advice for a lot of people who are high on rationality and/or wanting control (the latter is frequently the former but not always). "Interesting" or even 8+/10 just introduce too many "variables" that ultimately make life more difficult than it needs to be.
no country for old wainds
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the only viable options for me are having someone ‘interesting’ or just staying single. relationships introduce variables and make life more difficult, i’m not gonna bother with that shit for someone boring/unattractive.
obvs there are degrees though, i draw a line at what i’d call ‘crazy’ lol
obvs there are degrees though, i draw a line at what i’d call ‘crazy’ lol
Dak
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"Interesting" to most people turns out to be code for incompatible. Relationships do produce variables but they can either be multiplicative or negative. Two people trying to just go OFP are merely business partners at best.
Matt
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So I've had the following scenario occur 3 times in 2019. I meet a reasonably attractive girl on Tinder / Facebook / etc. First few dates go well. Suddenly, the cling factor goes up to 11 and I'm getting texted every hour of the day, expected to hang out all the time etc. What happened to taking things slowly? Lord.
TechnicalBarbarity
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jimmy101
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It can be a mixed bag that's for sure. When I was doing the whole dating app thing about a year ago I met up with a girl & we had a nice little first date. Next thing i knew she was blowing up my Motorola asking me if she could spend the weekend at my house, pestering me about getting me to some stupid podcast she liked. Literally went from zero to fifty in a matter of 24 hours.
Guess there's a good reason why some of these girls are singletons.
Dak
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The Wall/biological clock is probably becoming an issue for the girls you are meeting. Or, only personality disorders are all that's left on dating sites.
CiG
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Slammed
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She's testing the water to see if she has a shot with you Jimmy. Reply back that you're ready and you can keep a secret.
Matt
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TechnicalBarbarity
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Matt
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Matt
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TechnicalBarbarity
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im asking if you're still on steroids. That just might be the reason why everyone seems "not well adjusted, emotionally unstable, insecure etc" to you. Just trying to help you out, sistah.
Matt
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