Males and Females

[V.V.V.V.V.]

Health food... I like yogurt, not a bad idea.

I laughed at this. sorry d00d

 

[unknown]

I met my current gf on okcupid.com and haven't regretted it. she's pretty awesome. I say give online dating a whirl. a lot of people live under rocks (me), and it's good to see them when otherwise you might not

 

[Krigloch the Furious]

thought about the online dating crap. But really dont want to

 

[V.V.V.V.V.]

Chick I really like and have been trying to work the courage up to ask out just asked me for my number on Facebook. I think I just won at life.

 

[The Butt]

I wish that there were some chicks here that were actually dateable. :/ All the ones my age and older have moved off to college.

 

[V.V.V.V.V.]

Are you going to go to college?

 

[Saparmurat_Niyazov]

Behold my latest creation!

On a side note, I wish I could participate in this thread. I'm pretty sure no one here identifies with teetering between feelings like "I can't believe I'm so in love with you after all these years!", to "Could I actually get away with murder?", to "How do you get even more beautiful as you get older?", to "Being gay would be so awesome if I was sexually attracted to men, 'cause I can't stand bitches."
Anyway, back to lurking in this thread.

 

[Jimmy... Dead.]

I disagree with this. Especially since she's still a part of your life, you probably should take into consideration how she feels about it. Of course it shouldn't exactly decide what you ultimately do, but it should definitely influence the way that you approach your decision in my opinion, and it may not even hurt to have a talk with her about you being ready to move on. Although, depending on how much longer you will be living together with her, it may just be prudent to wait on everything all together until you're in a different living arrangement.

This.

Women have the deepest contempt for other women, especially "replacements". Not that this should stop you but I'd suggest yielding. Be very careful.

 

[Episteme]

I just found out last night that my ex-girlfriend has been flirting with another guy and vice versa. I got it out of her while we were talking, which we still do every now and then because we promised to remain best friends (the way we were before we started dating). It sure hurts alot to hear it but I can't do anything about it. I'd like to go on a casual sex rampage but I just can't do it. Don't have the heart to.

 

[damnromulans]

Fuck, that's gotta be hard. Maybe casual secks with a chick who likes to get hit would be cathartic?

 

[Matt]

I just found out last night that my ex-girlfriend has been flirting with another guy and vice versa. I got it out of her while we were talking, which we still do every now and then because we promised to remain best friends (the way we were before we started dating). It sure hurts alot to hear it but I can't do anything about it. I'd like to go on a casual sex rampage but I just can't do it. Don't have the heart to.

I would stop talking to her completely for a while. Block everything about her out of your life.

 

[Episteme]

I go to university with her, we share 90% of the same classes. It's hard not to bump into her. Some days, I refuse to go to class and just study at home instead but some classes have compulsory attendance.

 

[The Butt]

Are you going to go to college?

Hoping to, but as I've said before, student loans scare the shit out of me, as I've been pounding the pavement for the past year trying to look for a job and gotten absolutely nothing in the way of calls back, replies, anything. Looked up how much the course actually would cost, and it's in the 10,000 range.

I'm considering trying to sell myself for money at this point (LOL AS IF).

 

[King Richard]

You have to give dating sites a little bit to give you a return. You can't be like Rick and delete the account after two days because he wasn't getting messaged by girls.

I don't know what you're talking about. And I'd appreciate it if you didn't spread baseless lies about me on the internet. Thank you.

P.S. EABOD

 

[zabu of nΩd]

I can't believe i can guess what that abbreviation means

 

[mutantllama]

Eat a big old dick?

 

[Episteme]

Eat a bag of dicks.

 

[Zephyrus]

Cute girl keeps texting me in Greek. I'm texting back in French and German just to fuck with her. It's so amusing.

edit: whoop, she asked the age question. She's 19 and I just turned 22. Good match.

 

[Zephyrus]

Chick I really like and have been trying to work the courage up to ask out just asked me for my number on Facebook. I think I just won at life.

Gotta love springtime. Love is in the air.

 

[Einherjar86]

This whole "stay friends with exes" thing is laudable, but very, very unrealistic. My ex and I agreed to stay friends after breaking up, which led to "no strings attached" sex, which led to getting back together, which led to me being an asshole to her, which led to breaking up again, which led to angry sex (awesome), which led to getting back together, which led to a huge emotional upset, and finally we were done.

In most cases the only solution is distance. You can be cordial to one another of course, talk when you bump into one another at parties, call or text every once in a while (and by that I mean once or twice every six months or so); but as far as making an effort to keep hanging out and seeing one another, all that does is remind you of feelings you had when you used to be together all the time.

I'm not saying this is the only way; but more often than not, trying to maintain a casual, friendly relationship just leads to both people rationalizing how they can get back to fucking again. Even seeing other people doesn't work; you need to see other people and not see each other.