Males and Females

[Episteme]

So you'll just take her back like that if she changes her mind?

I'm in a similar situation. My brain tells me no, my heart says otherwise. But probably because I'm still heartbroken.

You'd be leaving yourself vulnerable and showing that you were weak if you took her back Drunkard. Same for me here.

 

[challenge_everything]

So I'm debating whether to go and see my ex when I go back to France in a few weeks. We never stopped loving each other when we broke up (it was a distance thing and diverging lives) so I expect there would be passion like when we first fell in love. But I don't know if I can handle leaving her again now that I'm basically recovered from the breakup - it would be like going backwards. I'm usually the last person to need personal advice but this one is really eating me at the moment.

 

[King Richard]

So you'll just take her back like that if she changes her mind?

I'm in a similar situation. My brain tells me no, my heart says otherwise. But probably because I'm still heartbroken.

You'd be leaving yourself vulnerable and showing that you were weak if you took her back Drunkard. Same for me here.

You guys don't know me very well do you? I'm not one to put myself in vulnerable positions. And there's no way she'd ever start believing I'm weak, she knows better than that. If she did decides she wants to be with me there would most definitely be a conversation had, albeit one-sided. I'd probe and prod her for answers she wasn't willing to give me and/or didn't know. I'd pretty much break her down to find out where her heart really is and understand why she did what she did and what made her come to whichever conclusion she arrives at. Ironically, this is one of the problems that plagued our relationship in the early years because I tended to converse with her in an interrogating manner on serious subjects, which she didn't like. Therefore, no matter if she decides she wants to be with me again, the reality of the situation is it may not happen because I'll either piss her off really bad or find out something I don't like and will just walk away.

 

[unknown]

So I'm debating whether to go and see my ex when I go back to France in a few weeks. We never stopped loving each other when we broke up (it was a distance thing and diverging lives) so I expect there would be passion like when we first fell in love. But I don't know if I can handle leaving her again now that I'm basically recovered from the breakup - it would be like going backwards. I'm usually the last person to need personal advice but this one is really eating me at the moment.

It's a trap! But seriously, I wouldn't do it. A few days of fun isn't worth the heartbreak and dealing with the emotions for weeks afterwards

 

[King Richard]

So I'm debating whether to go and see my ex when I go back to France in a few weeks. We never stopped loving each other when we broke up (it was a distance thing and diverging lives) so I expect there would be passion like when we first fell in love. But I don't know if I can handle leaving her again now that I'm basically recovered from the breakup - it would be like going backwards. I'm usually the last person to need personal advice but this one is really eating me at the moment.

Um, what would it cost me for you to pick up a nice bottle of French wine and ship it to me? I've been salivating at the idea of getting my hands on a bottle of something rare from l'un des meilleurs établissements vinicoles dans le monde. Dieu merci pour le traducteur google.

 

[waif]

That and... you know... mental age.

Srsly, "about to turn into Derek"?

Something about the detached, analytical assessment of your social skills reminded me of Derek and his "cold approaches" and shit. You kinda sounded like the PUA of friendship. To me, anyways.

 

[Zephyrus]

I recall you doing the same once upon a time, nay?

 

[waif]

Probably. I definitely think like that sometimes. Wasn't criticizing anyone. I'm sure Derek will get laid someday, and frankly Grant's social life sounds a lot better than mine right now. At this point I don't go outside except to find food and take exams. Barely even leave my room. I don't think I've actually spoken to another human being with whom I was not engaged in a financial transaction since the weekend.

 

[Onder]

Virgins of this forum have two ways to manage their future: Either continue trying and end up like Derek, or give up and pay for random whore like aug (and then defend it as being "metal").

PS: Oh and then there is the third possibility. The one behind the huge Berlin wall inside your head.

I made myself laugh. See?

Fucking hell.

I'm gonna have a beer.

 

[sevag00]

I went with the 2nd option because as you said it's fuckin metal.

 

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[waif]

You will die as you live, alone and unloved. Then again, giving up whores probably wouldn't change that, so I guess you might as well keep it up.

 

[Episteme]

WAIF, that was a little mean. Everyone can get a girl, it just depends on how socially adequate they are or they could be.

 

[Mountains_of_Mars]

I just go with option 3... or C... I just overload myself on porn and jerking off any time I get the inclination that I want a girlfriend or something, cause then about 30 minutes later Im totally cured of that inclination.

 

[Zephyrus]

Wait until you've had sex and you'll know the difference. Masturbation just isn't enjoyable anymore these days.

 

[Mountains_of_Mars]

That's why I try to avoid sex at all costs. I figure that I cant miss what i've never experienced.

 

[waif]

WAIF, that was a little mean. Everyone can get a girl, it just depends on how socially adequate they are or they could be.

Yes, but between his personality and his looks his odds are pretty goddamn low. Nothing personal, I'm pretty sure this is the same thought process he went through when deciding whether to drop $500 on a better wardrobe or a romantic evening with Dulce Soggo.

Wait until you've had sex and you'll know the difference. Masturbation just isn't enjoyable anymore these days.

Lies. Jill keeps me warm at night.

 

[Vacant_Planets]

Well sex is better than masturbation, I can at least think of anything I want and focus on uh well stuff when I do masturbate. I masturbate here and there even though I have sex regularly. No reason to stop loving myself. lol

 

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[Mort Divine]