Males and Females

[The Ozzman]

when I finally succumb to the curse of the estrogenic beasts.

I lol'd. Nicely put.

 

[Zephyrus]

You speak of that as an inevitability and a curse. You should know that my ideal life has been a balance between your esoterica by day and by night, well, bedding a lady. Worked for two years.

 

[Addo_Of_Nex]

It won't be a curse if it's with a person I genuinely treasure as someone whose swift death by fire would actually upset me, but finding a partner that worthwhile is difficult for an insane number of reasons including (but certainly not limited to): my nigh pathological introversion, my distaste for "small talk" and the stage of relationships in which both members inoffensively go back and forth with mundane things for the sake of advancing the relationship, etc.

The idea of hooking up with someone physically attractive but otherwise universally repugnant person turns me off because it seems like such empty indulgence that requires douche-y behavior of monumental proportions to achieve. Such promiscuity is pretty much a fatal turn-off for me anyway. Every time I've been confronted with some girl who has sown the seeds of such an empty encounter by flirting with me, I feel like a goddamn primate when I try to reciprocate the favor and feel relieved when they leave me the fuck alone. Maybe I should just convert to Christianity or something.

 

[Vimana]

Do it.

 

[Addo_Of_Nex]

Nah, I don't want AIDS.

 

[Vimana]

I used to be like you, but then I separated how I think of different joys, and decided I'd have sex with a girl I don't care about a shitload. Still, I'm just way too lazy to put the moves on a girl unless I'm drunk/high. I want more payout than sex for my effort, and I'm not that desperate without chemical help.

 

[The Ozzman]

Still, I'm just way too lazy to put the moves on a girl unless I'm drunk/high. I want more payout than sex for my effort, and I'm not that desperate without chemical help.

This. The chance of a high return on investment is poor. Girls at bars and clubs tend to be skanks anyway

 

[Der Morgenstern]

It won't be a curse if it's with a person I genuinely treasure as someone whose swift death by fire would actually upset me, but finding a partner that worthwhile is difficult for an insane number of reasons including (but certainly not limited to): my nigh pathological introversion, my distaste for "small talk" and the stage of relationships in which both members inoffensively go back and forth with mundane things for the sake of advancing the relationship, etc.

The idea of hooking up with someone physically attractive but otherwise universally repugnant person turns me off because it seems like such empty indulgence that requires douche-y behavior of monumental proportions to achieve. Such promiscuity is pretty much a fatal turn-off for me anyway. Every time I've been confronted with some girl who has sown the seeds of such an empty encounter by flirting with me, I feel like a goddamn primate when I try to reciprocate the favor and feel relieved when they leave me the fuck alone. Maybe I should just convert to Christianity or something.

What a shame. You sound like such a catch too.

 

[Zephyrus]

I'd like to defend his youth but I never identified with such resignation. I was depressed throughout high school and the beginning of college until I started dating and my self-esteem shot up astronomically.

 

[V.V.V.V.V.]

@Der Morgenstern: Have you always been this much of a dick or have the last few days just been bad for you?

 

[Addo_Of_Nex]

In his defense it's really easy to see my post in a "holier-than-thou" light, though I intended for it to be void of any judgment whatsoever. It doesn't bother me anyway. I'm an extremely happy person and I'm generally well-liked by everyone I give a shit about. Different strokes for different folks.

 

[V.V.V.V.V.]

no br0 you must be depressed because you don't desire the companionship of the opposite sex, actually you're probably a sociopath oh my god everyone guy is a sociopath get away you monster

 

[mutantllama]

OMG SOMEONE WAS SHOT IN ILLINOIS FROM A METALHEAD IT MUST HAVE BEEN THE METAL THAT MADE HIM KILL PEOPLE

 

[Lost Wisdom]

It won't be a curse if it's with a person I genuinely treasure as someone whose swift death by fire would actually upset me, but finding a partner that worthwhile is difficult for an insane number of reasons including (but certainly not limited to): my nigh pathological introversion, my distaste for "small talk" and the stage of relationships in which both members inoffensively go back and forth with mundane things for the sake of advancing the relationship, etc.

The idea of hooking up with someone physically attractive but otherwise universally repugnant person turns me off because it seems like such empty indulgence that requires douche-y behavior of monumental proportions to achieve. Such promiscuity is pretty much a fatal turn-off for me anyway. Every time I've been confronted with some girl who has sown the seeds of such an empty encounter by flirting with me, I feel like a goddamn primate when I try to reciprocate the favor and feel relieved when they leave me the fuck alone. Maybe I should just convert to Christianity or something.

Swift death by fire? universally repugnant? Thats angsty virgin talk if I've ever heard it.

Its like this :- your penis + being wet in a V-hole x not doing math = You won't live with your Mum forever.

You need to phone up Hitch to improve your game or something.

 

[The Ozzman]

Or maybe he just doesn't care? I stopped caring a long time ago. I've asked chicks I've hooked up with before if they want to hook up again and they get mad or blow me off so I've just completely given up on the sexual aspect of a relationship. I'm still not over my last relationship fully and I'm enough of a handful for colleagues let alone a significant other.

I'm a bit 'rough around the edges' as some people state, but I prefer to be called an 'acquired taste' (because it's classier!) and I think my antisocial tendencies have hurt me a bit in terms of development and I'm trying to get out of those tendencies on my own to find self-actualization.

As I said before: Vagina is not a panacea. When people finally realize that having sex on a semi regular basis isn't going to cure their problems and they realize that it's something internal that is the problem is when things start to get better. Sure, having sex is great and I'd like to have it more often, but it doesn't solve problems.

Addo: For the record, I think it's great. I guess you're studying math for school? or maybe it's just for pleasure? Either way, kudos to you. I'm studying actuarial mathematics on my own and it's a bit of a chore to think this way after being out of the game for so long. Keep at it and good things will come to you. Persistence is what drives progress.

 

[waif]

It's all relative, my friend. When I was with Psychobitch we'd be at it at least four days a week, so when it was approaching even a week of celibacy I was getting anxious and thinking something was wrong.

We would go at it about twice a day, five/six days a week. Jill is kind to me, but it's rapidly become inadequate.

Re: Addo: I have to agree with the general "sack-up" attitude. Just because somebody doesn't seem really awesome in the first five minutes you meet them doesn't mean anything. You don't have to act like a dick to hook up. And introversion is a shitty excuse. Also, nowadays girls fucking dig nerds. A guy who reads math on the weekend instead of crushing beer cans against his forehead? Panties are getting wet as we speak.

 

[Lost Wisdom]

Or maybe he just doesn't care?

We all know thats a lie.

I never mentioned that having sex on a regular basis would cure peoples problems?...and I don't believe it can. But for me personally If I am stressed, under pressure or even upset I can vex a lot through having sex (not by means of rape) its an expression in my opinion.

Wet Vagina is nice

 

[Addo_Of_Nex]

Ozzman: Cheers. I identify with a lot of what you said. I've become increasingly interested in math over the past few years and officially declared a second major in it a little while back (right now I'm going through an intro to topology book for the second time to solidify the fundamentals). The intellectual rigor is refreshing and it really makes you think about everything else in a different way (though I suppose this could be said of any discipline).

WAIF: The problem is that sex is a matter of such little importance that I don't feel the need to pursue a relationship with someone that would quickly lead to physical contact. If I ended up meeting someone tomorrow that I genuinely cared for and we happened to have sex, that would be great, as I feel like it's certainly a vital part of an intimate relationship between two people that seriously care about each other. However, it's just a personal preference of mine to stay away from social situations that act as the quick catalyst for romantic relationships, because, as I've previously stated, the lack of one isn't exactly a giant void in my life and I just don't feel comfortable in the environment. In other words, I'm perfectly fine going through life waiting to be proactive until a certain someone makes me take the initiative. Although I may come across as an insular dick on the forum, I'm regarded as warm, affectionate, genuinely understanding, and all that shit by a great deal of my acquaintances, family, co-workers, peers, etc. I typically give people more of a "chance" than is logically sound, tbh.

Lost Wisdom: Why is it necessarily a lie? Yeah, I get physiological urges just like any other person, and I don't think I've said anything to indicate otherwise; but I'm perfectly fine with subduing them as a part of my routine so I can get on with my jolly life. You have sex to quell stress? I go on a run, throw on some music, or read something uplifting. Again, different strokes for different folks.

I don't know why the fuck I even bothered posting in this thread, because I had a feeling some dreadful monster like the latest string of posts would surface.

 

[Cythraul]

Also, nowadays girls fucking dig nerds. A guy who reads math on the weekend instead of crushing beer cans against his forehead? Panties are getting wet as we speak.

This seems false to me. I am a guy who does similar things (reads philosophy on weekends) and unless the chick is similarly nerdy or has a similar kind of attitude on life, I just don't see how this is attractive. It seems like chicks like guys that are outgoing or whatever. It doesn't help much if, like me, you have a bad attitude about almost everything. I'm not saying women don't care about intelligence, but that's distinct from nerdiness.

 

[waif]

Women like guys to be kinda outgoing, but at the same time to have intellectual interests. Their ideal is outgoing but intelligent. Did I mention that women are crazy?

Nerdiness is a strong indicator of intelligence, not that it's necessarily actually strongly correlated. So an outgoing guy who has some nerdy habits...I think a lot of women go for that.