Gorkon
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Thats what I figured, gotta watch myself in those goth clubs my friend wants to drag me to
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Thats what I figured, gotta watch myself in those goth clubs my friend wants to drag me to
Dak
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Enemy242
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zabu of nΩd;9958771 said:
You don't have to go out of your way to be unattractive, but i do think that (this is a generalization, get over it) a lot of guys aren't able to read signals and often times seriously just think they're going to bang chicks eventually if they're friends. i've seen this happen all the time (hell i've been guilty of it before, but now i can tell the difference and it's always friends haha) and it always ends up in the guy getting all pissy when something happens because the girl just wants to be friends and he thinks he was getting somewhere.
if someone wants to be just friends they will, and if putting it bluntly makes them pissy then clearly they weren't a good friend. it seems best just to get it out of the way by straight up saying that you want to be friends (put it in some conversation at some point, but make it clear), if you're going out with a guy who is purely a friend then you don't have to get INSANELY makeup/fancy/slutted up, obviously looking good is important to a lot of people but sometimes it does send the wrong message as much as that might suck (you can still look good without it seeming overdone). just being direct is important because yeah, a lot of guys seriously despite how direct the messages are don't get it and their dick just keeps their hope alive (others understand though, it's not everyone).
i hate a lot of the shit girls do and i hate a lot of the shit guys do and a lot of the shitty things about guys really are pretty common, even if there are exceptions. some just can't have the opposite sex friend yet others can, as long as one is open at least there isn't confusion and that awkward bullshit that usually goes with it (can't even count how many times girls have wah'd to me about some guy they were friends with and then they basically crushed his dreams of banging her and then he gets all pissy and turned out he was just trying to bang them so then he goes all guilt trip/asshole etc).
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Houses Ov Mercury
Well, duh. Love is an abstract concept created by the Illuminati reptillian master race to subjugate and mentally control weakling human beings whose minds are biased towards such feelings because of the hormonal implants grafted onto their temporal lobes by externally-controlled nanobots injected secretly during the first trimester of pregnancy.
Dak
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SentinelSlain
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Cronopio
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Draehl
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Watched Yes Man yesterday. Zooey Deschanel is once again in the crosshairs, nothing new to report on local actually attainable women, however.
Chanakya
Orphaned Brother
Chanakya
Orphaned Brother
Cronopio
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So I deleted my OKCupid account, because I can't be arsed to write to women who won't ever write me back. Sure, you shouldn't judge everyone by the same standards, but I'm getting pretty fucking tired by this 30:1 or less answer ratio.
Master_Yoda77
Juggalo
I have yet to get a girl to respond back. I don't even hit on them, usually I just ask them a question based on their profile. One girl was into some cool music like Joy Division and Bauhaus and I was interested in what she thought of Dead Can Dance. No fucking response. Shame too, she was gorgeous.
SentinelSlain
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The only messages I've sent are the Judas Priest lyrics one to a megabitch who basically said I'm not rich enough for her, and one that was just a youtube url of some song (can't remember) to krampus.
I haven't had any chicks send me messages other than megabitch specifying how my means couldn't support her. Basically I just like looking at the chicks who checked out my profile. Lots of B-A-U-tiful girls.
I haven't had any chicks send me messages other than megabitch specifying how my means couldn't support her. Basically I just like looking at the chicks who checked out my profile. Lots of B-A-U-tiful girls.
The Ozzman
Melted by feels
You are more impatient than me, then.
Par for the course for the site it seems. If she doesn't respond, she's not interested (from my experience). If she gives very terse replies to questions you ask, she's not interested.
Cronopio
Glorious Imperator
This is basically what you're in for, unless you look like a male model, or have stolen the picture of one.
MasterOLightning
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How old are you guys? Chicks seem to get less flaky the older you get. And yeah, if you don't get a reply, try not to get butthurt. If it's not going to happen you don't want to get your hopes up anyway. I find it helps to write messages drunk. That way if you wake up and have a reply, it's a nice surprise, and if not, you won't really remember.
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