September Mourning - Metalcore - This band is amazing, amazing singer, amazing lyrics, good guitar and bass. Strictly speaking it's an art project with a graphic novel that accompanies each album and each uses the other to tell its story but is nonetheless amazing and the comic is not neccesary to appreciate the music itself. This band mainly uses clean singing, however Emily Lazaar (the vocalist) is able to scream and scream well and in ways and places that truly complement the music, normally I do not get so hyped and love a band so much but this is a very special exception, also good for anybody who likes In This Moment. They have three music videos out right now, Before the Fall, the best, Eye of the Storm, good but not that great and Skin and Bones which is pretty good but a bit more rock oriented. (I've also racked up 260 listens of Angels to Dust according to iTunes) (Also feels more like an awesome fusion of industrial, alternative and Gothic metal tbh)
Otep - Nu Metal - Blends in a lot of hip-hop and rap elements while keeping a very heavy approach, very good on a few songs, ok on others.
Flyleaf - Nu Metal? - I don't know much about this band but I have listened to a little and I like it.
In This Moment - Metalcore - Feels more Gothic and Alternative mixed than Metalcore but I've heard different things. The earlier albums were kind of emo metal but the most recent few, particularly Blood and Black Widow. Very good band, good mixture of clean and screaming and Maria Brink's voice is amazing.
Sad Alice Said - Gothic Metal - A really cute, nice experience with good lyrics and symphonic elements. Not too much relistening value but worthwhile all the same. The singer is very good and the rest of the band is as well.
Ravenscry - Gothic Metal - In my mind, the lesser known, somewhat better version of Lacuna Coil. Italian metal and with elements of synths here and there. Great lyrics, amazing singing and a good and interesting sound. I recommend very highly to anyone into Gothic metal.
Lacuna Coil - Gothic Metal - Good band, Christina Scabbia does share the stage with another male singer but the moment she opens her mouth to sing, it's pretty clear why this band is considered female-fronted. The lyrics are somewhat generic but not bad, their most recent album "Delerium" has more heaviness to it and is a quick fix for Gothic metal fans.
Butcher Babies - Metalcore/thrash metal - Most of their stuff is trying to be edgy so their lyrical side isn't that great however the music will carry you away. Heavy, aggressive. The clean singing isn't that great but complemented well by the screaming so you don't mind it. The bass and the guitar are amazing and the rhythms are powerful. Actually fronted by two women, they are a good, heavy band. My only recommendation is that you don't want to listen to too much at a time or it may seem same-y. In Denial and particularly Magnolia Blvd. are good introductions to this band.
Death of Art - Gothic Electronica - I just want to add this as a little change of pace, cute local band in my nearby area, wanted to spread their name a bit. Really for anyone who wants a somewhat soft, easy to listen to bit of Gothic music-y goodness.
Evanescence - Gothic Rock - Obvious deal here.
Fit For Rivals - Punk Rock - I know, I know it isn't metal but punk rock and metal can be hard to tell the difference from each other sometimes and someone may enjoy. Good band, nice sound.
The Nearly Deads - Punk Rock - Same deal as fit for Rivals, got a few others like this if anyone is interested.
Eowyn - Christian Rock - There is this one song "Beautiful Ashes" which is basically Gothic Metal and it is surprisingly good aside from horrible bit of sampling at the very beginning. I recommend checking it out.
The Distillers - Punk Metal - Hard, thrash-y, what more could you want.
The Pretty Reckless - Punk Rock - Same as above
Within Temptation - Symphonic Metal - Been mentioned before.
Stitched Up Heart - Alternative Metal - Okay, not bad, but not great either, still fun to listen to though, just not something you would really get into either.