DarkGift
ov Doom
Works for me in general, but I'm referring to Opeth's music specifically. What's "great" music to me might not be so to you and vice-versa.
i think i am in the same situation as you, except the other way around you have a problem with "metalheads" (i hate that term ^^) listening to nothing but metal, and being dickheads for it, and i have a problem with people going "oh yeah, opeth are really good, but there's not any other metal band in the world that is listenable"