OT: Your Top 3 "Most beautiful girls"

[Androz]

Chris, It's been a while. You know, you are the reason I want a PRS

 

[Taliwakker]

Yeah...i wouldn't rule anyone out of a relationship based on their occupation (unless they were a hooker maybe)....if they are hot and can support me while i'm trying to make it to the big time and don't get jealous when other chicks hit on me at gigs...then thats all i need in a woman.

The Lullacry chick has moments or angles of hotness...and then other times there is nothing there at all.....you gotta watch out for chicks like that


Chris wrote

I guess there are a lot of guys out there "suffering for their music" without actually being good at it

I saw about 40 of them on Rage the other night.

 

[ThornsOfSorrow]

American girls demand 1000% attention from their men.

As the one the few exceptions to that rule, I can say that American guys do the same thing, at least in my experience. Out of all the guys I've gone out with (there have only been 4, but whatever), they all felt the need to call me at least twice a day (sometimes 3 times) and to hang out with me every other day. My response would always be something like, "But we just hung out a week ago!"

 

[DoomsdayZach]

Yeah...i wouldn't rule anyone out of a relationship based on their occupation (unless they were a hooker maybe)....if they are hot and can support me while i'm trying to make it to the big time and don't get jealous when other chicks hit on me at gigs...then thats all i need in a woman.

The Lullacry chick has moments or angles of hotness...and then other times there is nothing there at all.....you gotta watch out for chicks like that

I saw about 40 of them on Rage the other night.

I didn't say she wasn't hot (not my favorite). I just said the band sucks.

 

[SilentRealm]

And i think the whole no girls wants to be used for sex thing can be debated, I mean there are some real sluts out there...

and you can keep them - this is true, but I think you and your 'instrument' should be wary of such things.

Saying you'd never date someone because of their occupation is weird...I guess there are some occupations I would find more disturbing than others though, but unless she plans on being a mortician outside of working hours...

well when a cool one comes along who can balance love and work/music then I'll let you know - until then I choose to be jaded

and HEY! whats wrong with being a mortician outside working hours damnit! Thats my hobby didnt you know?

Oh my god, Chris Brooks is here. Man, your playing is great

lol its funny to see you going off over Chris like that, he is a LONG term SyX forum-dweller.

Out of all the guys I've gone out with (there have only been 4, but whatever), they all felt the need to call me at least twice a day (sometimes 3 times) and to hang out with me every other day. My response would always be something like, "But we just hung out a week ago!"

ugh yeah I've dated THOSE guys. I've heard so many stories of girls though calling several times a day and getting all neurotic if someone isnt available when they want them to be. I just think 'psycho!'. A guys lucky if I call him maybe 2 or 3 times a week, if he wants to talk to me other than that its his job.

 

[Chris Brooks]

Chris, It's been a while. You know, you are the reason I want a PRS

That's awesome. I wanted one because of Neal Schon!

Oh my god, Chris Brooks is here. Man, your playing is great. Keep rockin

And people, if you don't know this guy, he plays better than you in anyways. You can be sure

Thanks heaps man. I'm just better than I was yesterday. That's about the best I hope for!

 

[Taliwakker]

Z wrote

I didn't say she wasn't hot (not my favorite). I just said the band sucks.

I didn't say you didn't say she wasn't hot...but the band does kind of suck

 

[Jax]

As the one the few exceptions to that rule, I can say that American guys do the same thing, at least in my experience. Out of all the guys I've gone out with (there have only been 4, but whatever), they all felt the need to call me at least twice a day (sometimes 3 times) and to hang out with me every other day. My response would always be something like, "But we just hung out a week ago!"

My response to that comment was going to be 'thankfully, American girls eventually grow into American women & get over that crap'.

And yep..guys are just as guilty of that as the girls are.

 

[Kronikle66]

As the one the few exceptions to that rule, I can say that American guys do the same thing, at least in my experience. Out of all the guys I've gone out with (there have only been 4, but whatever), they all felt the need to call me at least twice a day (sometimes 3 times) and to hang out with me every other day. My response would always be something like, "But we just hung out a week ago!"

Don't speak for all American guys. I've been teaching men how to meet women for several months now and that kind of behavior is bar-none one of the worst ways to attract a woman. Heidegger said "We pursue that which retreats from us."

The opening interaction with a woman sets the standard for how the balance of power in a relationship will be. If a man shows interest 100% of the time, first of all, I'm surprised if the woman will even give him the time of day, but secondly, he has relinquished almost all of his power right from the start.

As an extreme example, just last Friday I was at a party. I went out into the back to get a refill on my beer, when I saw this really cute punk/indie chick sitting on the wooden ledge of the deck. Her cell phone fell off the platform where she was sitting. It fell from the deck and landed right near me on the grass below.

Her: "Hey, can you get that for me?"
Me: "Oh that phone over there?" *I point towards it*
Her: "Yes, thank you."
Me: "It's right there fyi."
Her: "Can you pick it up for me?"
Me: "Oh yeah, I totally could. I mean it's right next to me. You would have to walk all the way down to pick it up."
Her: "Ok, so are you gonna do it?"
Me: *I look over and see a guy laughing his ass off at this whole thing as he fills his cup with beer* "Well I kinda gotta pump the keg for this guy's beer."
Guy: "HAHAHA This is so f***ing awesome man! Hahahahaha!!!"
Her: "You are such an asshole! F**k."
Me: "Well I'll point you in the right direction, I mean, I did see where it landed after all."

For the rest of the night, anytime I would walk by cute punk/indie chick, she would call me "an asshole." This is kind of a hard thing for most men to realize, but just because she doesn't like you, doesn't mean she isn't attracted to you. Attraction isn't a choice. Later on in the night, I walk out into the backyard again and I hear, "Yeah, this is that asshole who wouldn't even pick up my f***ing phone when I dropped it." I just looked back and said, "Aww poor baby. I love you too," and walked on.

It comes time for cute punk/indie chick to leave. As she's walking out she doesn't even look my way, and I just smile. Then it hit me, maybe I really did strike a chord? For a moment, I thought she might have actually been pissed off at me. That is, until she came back in, walked right up to me and gave me a big hug.

Her: "If I ever drop my cellphone again, I hope you're nowhere around you big jerk!"
Me: "If you ever drop your cellphone again, I'm picking it up." *I pull her cellphone out of her pocket*
Her: "Oh yeah?"
Me: "Yeah, and I'm putting my number into it, and you're going to call me later, and take me out for coffee." *I put my number into her phone then put it back in her pocket.*
Her: *She looks into my eyes* "Thanks " *She hugs me tighter and walks off.*

Really, this is a pretty extreme example, but I was the only guy there who wouldn't give in to anything a woman demanded, and I wouldn't appologize for it either. I was the only guy there to give my number out to 3 women and sleep with one that night. It's all a power struggle and the standards are set right at the beginning.

... Wow, that was kinda unneccessary. Maybe I should just open my own thread about meeting women?

 

[Kenneth R.]

picking up chicks and starting a serious relationship are a bit different though. you have a point, but that is extreme. one shouldn't give in and be a slave, but there should be some element of equal standing in it as well.

 

[turke]

Her: "Hey, can you get that for me?"
Me: "Oh that phone over there?" *I point towards it*
Her: "Yes, thank you."
Me: "It's right there fyi."
Her: "Can you pick it up for me?"
Me: "Oh yeah, I totally could. I mean it's right next to me. You would have to walk all the way down to pick it up."
Her: "Ok, so are you gonna do it?"
Me: *I look over and see a guy laughing his ass off at this whole thing as he fills his cup with beer* "Well I kinda gotta pump the keg for this guy's beer."
Guy: "HAHAHA This is so f***ing awesome man! Hahahahaha!!!"
Her: "You are such an asshole! F**k."
Me: "Well I'll point you in the right direction, I mean, I did see where it landed after all."

For the rest of the night, anytime I would walk by cute punk/indie chick, she would call me "an asshole." This is kind of a hard thing for most men to realize, but just because she doesn't like you, doesn't mean she isn't attracted to you. Attraction isn't a choice. Later on in the night, I walk out into the backyard again and I hear, "Yeah, this is that asshole who wouldn't even pick up my f***ing phone when I dropped it." I just looked back and said, "Aww poor baby. I love you too," and walked on.

It comes time for cute punk/indie chick to leave. As she's walking out she doesn't even look my way, and I just smile. Then it hit me, maybe I really did strike a chord? For a moment, I thought she might have actually been pissed off at me. That is, until she came back in, walked right up to me and gave me a big hug.

Her: "If I ever drop my cellphone again, I hope you're nowhere around you big jerk!"
Me: "If you ever drop your cellphone again, I'm picking it up." *I pull her cellphone out of her pocket*
Her: "Oh yeah?"
Me: "Yeah, and I'm putting my number into it, and you're going to call me later, and take me out for coffee." *I put my number into her phone then put it back in her pocket.*
Her: *She looks into my eyes* "Thanks " *She hugs me tighter and walks off.*

Really, this is a pretty extreme example, but I was the only guy there who wouldn't give in to anything a woman demanded, and I wouldn't appologize for it either. I was the only guy there to give my number out to 3 women and sleep with one that night. It's all a power struggle and the standards are set right at the beginning.

... Wow, that was kinda unneccessary. Maybe I should just open my own thread about meeting women?

I didn't get it, did you made this up in your mind, or this really happened ?

 

[Kronikle66]

I know a guy who was enourmously successful and rich. When he went out, he would buy women expensive gifts, take them out to lavish resorts, etc. This never worked for him. He spent so much money on dates because he was trying so hard to win their approval, that it backfired and he never entered a long-term relationship. That is, until he met this one model. He messed up early on in the date, then had the mentality "well, I f***ek up already, might as well just enjoy myself for the rest of the night". He had an attitude of not caring about the outcome or worrying about impressing her, and some months later, they got married.

During the marriage, he would constantly take her on trips to the Bahamas, Vegas, ski resorts, Jamaica, etc. He was ridiculously wealthy and just gave in to everything his woman wanted. He would send flowers to her work place every week, and usually, that's supposed to be a nice thing to do, but after too long, she started expecting them, like it was her god-given right that she get flowers every week.

Sooner or later, she started taking control of almost all his money, furnishing the entire house in ways that he didn't want, buying cars with his money without asking, etc. By the end of the marriage, he had no power, and she had it all. It was not healthy by any means.

For a long-term relationship, there should still be a power-struggle, always, because it's that push-pull tension that sparks and keeps attraction.

 

[Kronikle66]

I didn't get it, did you made this up in your mind, or this really happened ?

It really happened.

 

[Beelzebub]

It really happened.

It's hilarious.

 

[Kronikle66]

I keep a journal of my most memorable nights. My absolute favorite excerpt from one of my entries:


Last night, I went to a couple of parties. The first party, I dropped some awesome game. Where as everyone was afraid to go up to the group of 10 women in a circle, I decided to try out a few tips from David Deangelo and jump right into the middle of them.

"Sorry, I was late, traffic was a bitch. You gals didn't start anything without me did you?"

Haha, awesome. I made sure to meet every lady at that party. About 50 feet away from this party, there seemed to be another one going on. Everyone was dressed really nicely with suits and silk dresses, etc. All the women here were smoking hot and drunk as hell. But much to my dismay, they all came with a male escort from a frat. That didn't stop me from introducing myself to a few groups of them.

Me: "Well, well, look at all these classy citizens. What's the occassion?"
Girl: "We're not classy, what are you talking about?"
*I turn my back to her and face all her friends and repeat.*
Girl: "Hey!! That was mean!"
Me: "Oh I'm sorry, maybe you should properly introduce yourself so I can judge how classy you really are."
Girl: "I'm Meagan."
*I look her in the eyes. I grab her hand and pull it in to give it a kiss. She's smiling. At the last minute I turn her hand over and kiss my own hand instead.*
Girl: "What?? Hahaha you're not supposed to do that!"
Me: "That was class."
*I turn and walk away.*
Girl: "WAIT! What's your name??"
*I look back, give her a smile and a wink, and keep walking.*

The girl jumps out of her chair and starts chasing after me.

 

[Beelzebub]

You should change your username to Rico Suave.

 

[turke]

I am sorry but, i refuse to believe the things you tell. Even if they are true.

 

[Kronikle66]

Sometimes you really have to see someone do this before it snaps. I've done some even more crazy things that most people don't believe when I tell them. Belief is seeing, not the other way around. You will see the results you want if you believe they work.

You want another mindf**k? I'm not espescially that attractive. For a man, looks are at least half of attraction to a woman. For a woman, it's completely negligible. Personality, confidence, and beliefs are infinitely more attractive to a woman than looks.

 

[Kenneth R.]

You should change your username to Rico Suave.

or Psychopathic Pimp. sorry buddy but manipulating people is not my thing. I know how to get chicks to sleep with me, but I'd rather be myself and find someone who genuinely loves me for who I am. Power struggle you say? I say there should be a constant power channeling. Not trying to be on top, but helping each other reach higher in life. Tell me kronikle, you married? Or do you just screw em, write about it and forget them?

 

[Kronikle66]

or Psychopathic Pimp. sorry buddy but manipulating people is not my thing. I know how to get chicks to sleep with me, but I'd rather be myself and find someone who genuinely loves me for who I am. Power struggle you say? I say there should be a constant power channeling. Not trying to be on top, but helping each other reach higher in life. Tell me kronikle, you married? Or do you just screw em, write about it and forget them?

I love it when people call this "manipulative". Let me see, paying to take a woman out to dinner, buying her gifts, sugar-coating who you are so she'll like you more, and pretending to be interested in what she's saying when you're really only thinking about getting in her pants, that's not manipulative, right?

Putting on a false pretense and putting the woman on a pedestal so a girl will like you is a thousand times more manipulative than treating her like another human being. As I was saying, my example was a little extreme, but I never ever let a woman's beauty affect our interactions. A lot of what I say is in the delivery, it's said in a playful tone so she's unsure if I'm serious or kidding, and it always works in my favor.

Also I love when people say, "I just want to be myself!" That's exactly what I want you to be, except the real you. You ever notice how a guy will get choked up around a girl who he likes? Do you think he's being himself? Of course not, you just really gotta let go of your desire to get laid if you want it to happen. The Tao of Steve had a lot of wisdom in it.

Technically, I shouldn't be getting laid, but I do. And do you know why? Because when I'm hanging out with a woman, that's all I'm doing is hanging out, talking, listening. I'm not sitting there thinking about how to get in bed with her. And this completely confuses them because they're saying "Wait a minute. I'm so much better looking than this guy. Isn't he attracted to me?" The basic principle: We pursue that which retreats from us.

EDIT:
I use the term "power struggle" loosely to say that no one should ever just completely give up their power in a relationship because then it becomes unhealthy for both sides. I make no regrets for my life style. I will tell a woman straight up that there's little to no chance of her domesticating me, that I date other women, and that I'm not looking for any serious relationships. How is this ingenuine? How is it any more ingenuine than hiding your desires because you're afraid it'll scare her away? Oh yeah, and I'm not married, but I've had several successful long-term relationships. I have really high standards for datable women, and when I do find one that I like, I stay faithful to her, but at the same time, I still have a life and don't let me world revolve around her.