Ok...I've got 40 minutes.
I know there's probably not a lot of meaning in your life. Probably few people you keep close to you, not many 'goals', nothing you'd miss if you were gone. Which is why you commit every fiber of your being to emracing cold, self-sufficient Black Metal ideology, and why you so vehementy oppose any style in which the musicians seem to be having 'fun'. Because you're not having any fun.
Wrong wrong wrong blarghhh etc.
There's a difference between believing life is nothing sacred or precious and believing that all humans should die after they used up their worth.
I didn't say "should", I just said it makes it less important.
Thanks for your post, Scotsman.
Dude...the guy's dead. He died young, and didn't do anything to deserve death.
I didn't say he "deserved" it, the concepts of "deserving" and "blaming" are silly anyway. I said it's not important that he lives.
Hey! I haven't fucked any of my cousins, yet.
I wish I could believe you.
Chuck Schuldiner once said, "How easy it is to deny the pain of someone else's suffereing." Guardian of Darkness, you find it quite easy. I don't know whether you think you are "metal" or if you are just drowning yourself in bullshit ideologies. A man's worth to you is not the deciding factor in whether his life is worth living. Your life is irrelevant to me, and so was Dimebag's, but this does not mean that he, or anyone else does not deserve the chance to wake up every morning, play the music he's passionate about, or spend time with those he loves. Death isn't necessarily a bad thing, but when people in the primes of their lives lose life, that is reason to feel pity, or grief, which you said you have no use for. It is doubtful you value your own life very much. People who are attached to life feel bad because they know it's fleeting, and the death of someone else is a reminder of how lucky we are to be alive.
Eh, I can either go by something's worth to me or something's worth to the majority who're conditioned by a society based on clearly harmful values. I think I'll go with the former, thanks. And I'd rather do something with my life other than cry with happiness over how lucky I am to have one.
Respecting the dead is something that, I think, is primarily done to not hurt family and friends in their mourning process. I don't see any other reason for respecting the dead, but that reason is fair enough for me. I don't agree with your statement about pity and sympathy not being productive. Tears water the soul so it can grow, is what I say. Sadness is not a very obvious emotion in terms of productivity, but it is often an important stimulator for productivity. Great songs were inspired by such emotions, for example.
There's a difference between sadness and pity. Sadness is feeling your own loss. Pity is feeling a desire to quench somebody else's loss, and most people depend on it because they're so caught up on being 'selfless' - a make-believe concept.
I believe in natural processes such as survival of the fittest. I value strength over weakness. I have no time to spare being sad for those who can't fend for themselves.
In the current situation however, we cannot say that the victim sacrificed himself. He probably did not want to die yet. When a person dies without having a good motivation to die, that's a sad thing. And it's not only current society in which people are missed when they are dead. It's human nature.
Of course, if someone close to me dies I'll be hurt. I never tried to deny that. But you're all suggesting that I should be sad about ANYONE's death. Dimebag wasn't a hero, and he wasn't a great person in life generally imo, so I don't find his passing important. I didn't say he was a crappy person. If he was, then I'd be actively glad about his death. I just said it's not something I'm going to cry about.
But, that's just a wild guess. If you're talking about achievements that come in the form of fame, it might be true (although it might very well not be true, many people accomplish great things at higher ages). You say you believe in progression and mental strength. That is a very spiritual thing, and it has nothing to do with fame. If we relate that to Dimebag, you'll have nothing to say because you simply can't know. He might have reached a mental peek in a week from now. It's an individual thing in the end. The rest of that quote is just a shallow generalization which I don't really value enough to comment on.
The generalisation was pretty light-hearted.
It wasn't a wild guess. I just don't believe in what-ifs. I see what's put in front of me and I make a judgment. Dimebag's not done anything that I consider valuable. If he had, I would know, particularly as he's a famous guy, because great things transcend the self and benefit far more. The only thing he's done that's well known is bad music.
What about the 1100 kids that have died just in this Iraq thing.
Each one of them gave you their life so you could live in a free country.
These are the people we should be respecting and talking and crying about.
That being said, these fuckin' idiots that worship bands ( just like
the killer did) are what is wrong here, not the guns, not the venues,
and not the booze.
mabey it goes deeper into the way society is today and all that shit but
If you liked Dimebag, then please mourn his passing.
Don't put him on a pedestal above those that are losing their lives every
day over in Iraq. A life is a life.
You touch upon a valid point. I don't see anyone mourning for the thousands of other people who no doubt died today. Bit shallow to just mourn famous people, don't ya think?
GoD, if someone broke into your house at night and held a gun to your head you'd be pissing your pants and begging for your life.
I'd try whatever tactic I could think up to make him let me go. I never said I wanted to die. It's not something I shit myself over, though. I accept it'll come.
Personally I think you're good mod and you often make very good posts and seem like an intelligent guy but this time I think it's best to back off as comments like the ones you've made, although I can see where you're coming from, stir up the hornet's nest and do no good. Yes I know you're just showing your opinion but this isn't really the kind of thread for discussions like that and I'm not trying to tell you what to do but people just wanted to pay their respects to a musician that was obviously much loved, let them.
Thanks, and you're probably right, but I'd rather close up all the holes people have picked in my original posts. I don't want to be misinterpreted.
The simple answer is, you can't really judge the value of one's life based on how you feel about the person and how he or she has effected you, since his or her impact reaches further than yourself.
What's he done for the whole? Sod all useful. I value the whole, and I value a few things closer to me that he certainly hasn't touched upon. I know that he's had no effect on the things I value, and I go by my own value system based on my own logic, because I trust in myself.
GoD, it's apparent that you dislike Dime's image and his fanbase and what you stereotype their values as.
you then disregard him and (apparently) anyone else if they have died and not lived up to what YOU judge to be a valued life. you blow off his relatives, who hurt for his death.
i'd really like to know, are you somehow immortal? are you so immune to death that if your relatives died, you'd "Objectively" evaluate their existence before passing a judgment on their validity to earn respect? how disgusting.
when you are dead and gone, i doubt greatly that anyone would hold respect for your existence if they used your method to judge your contribution to this world.
your attitude is remeniscent of robotic programming, not human emotion. is that what you think "METAL" is?
i got news. it takes a "metal" Man to cry. it takes a "metal" man to admit sympathy, compassion, and courage. wave your upsidedown crosses, your studded chains, your leather and your steel. but those who have expressed condolence to the man's survivors and friends, EVEN IF THEY HATE HIS MUSIC, are the ones who are more "Metal" than you.
Yes.
Basically, yes.
No. I love and value many of my relatives.
What I accomplish remains to be seen, really.
I disagree, I find my attitude far more natural than most of yours.
I don't want to be 'metal', tyvm. And I'm not emotionless and never claimed to be. I'm certainly not ashamed of admitting such a fact.
Good to see that people are finally realizing what a worthless prick GoD is.
How many cocks and straws was it, again?