The Fiddler said:Which is my whole point and which is why they will never find, "it". They don't, "Take the Time" as a certain well-know prog band once wrote.
I tell you man... I can take a whole lot of time (and have in the past) and still come up with no good answer to this kind of question. It's just not that straightforward for a lot of people.
The Fiddler said:I ask to make them think about the question, even if it's the only 10 seconds of their life they will ever think about it. I allow them to put their blinders back on after that if they wish.
Blinders? Dude, I wish I had some blinders... that would make things a hell of a lot easier! The problem is basically the exact opposite... that's way too wide-open and broad-based a question for someone to just be able to ponder for 10 seconds and come up with an answer to. Speaking from great experience as a disgruntled type, questions like that just tend to make disgruntled people even more disgruntled! :Spin: :Spin: