So....I got laid. (help)

[Dead Winter]

Why the hell would he come back? Ok, people can say all they want about the bad decision to put something so personal on the net, but people were still dickfaces about it. It was something he was looking for help with, and knowing his propensity to constantly doubt himself and his low self-esteem, the forum just kicked him right in the balls and then pissed in his face.

The dude was raped as a child, has a serious drug addiction, is trying to pull himself out of the slums that are his life, and the one good thing that has happened to him that he's been waiting years for FINALLY happens. He's a bit confused and asks a perfectly NORMAL question that MANY people have questioned themselves about when they were inexperienced in the beginning, and what happens? People make fun of him. Do you think he could ask the piece of shit "friends" that he has in his day to day life about what he was feeling? Of course not. This was the only place he felt he could be himself and be honest about his feelings, and people sold him out.

I hope he never comes back; not because I don't want him posting on here again, but because he deserves better.

 

[Dead_Lioness]

Why the hell would he come back? Ok, people can say all they want about the bad decision to put something so personal on the net, but people were still dickfaces about it. It was something he was looking for help with, and knowing his propensity to constantly doubt himself and his low self-esteem, the forum just kicked him right in the balls and then pissed in his face.

The dude was raped as a child, has a serious drug addiction, is trying to pull himself out of the slums that are his life, and the one good thing that has happened to him that he's been waiting years for FINALLY happens. He's a bit confused and asks a perfectly NORMAL question that MANY people have questioned themselves about when they were inexperienced in the beginning, and what happens? People make fun of him. Do you think he could ask the piece of shit "friends" that he has in his day to day life about what he was feeling? Of course not. This was the only place he felt he could be himself and be honest about his feelings, and people sold him out.

I hope he never comes back; not because I don't want him posting on here again, but because he deserves better.

I like John, and I had no idea about the above ^ and his childhood.
I hope he does come back actually.

And Chris, I don't believe you two have met: Nevermore Board - Chris, Chris Nevermore Board.
I still think that the replies he got are NOT surprising.

 

[Dead Winter]

Of course they're not surprising. But would it be too much to ask for just one time for people to not shit all over something?

Wait. This is the Neverboard, I forgot.

 

[WhiteBeastofWotan]

We make fun of people who deserve it. I feel no sympathy for John. It was stupid to make this thread, then respond the way he did to the few people who actually gave positive input, and then "rage-quit" the board in a fit of angst. Idiocy deserves mockery and scorn, not sympathy.

 

[Dead_Lioness]

Nah, I will never mock John, EVER. No one deserves this, and my answer to him was serious but with that being said...again, this is the nevermore board...

 

[derek]

I'm down with John, but I agree with Max on this particular aspect.

No-one gets a pass. It can't work like that.

I do hope he comes back, though.

 

[Anvil]

Really Chris? Common man that's a load of crock. Anyone in the right mind would make fun of a guy who, despite very good and constructive advice in the past given, would go ahead and post about something so personal and obviously so easily answered by his own awareness had he actually sat and gave it an hour. You can't expect the board to feel sad for someone who won't take their advice anyway. So of course, we have good reason to make fun of him. Some of us anyway, are jesting at this in a more constructive way than others, being that this is the neverboard.

I like John, I think he's just a troubled kid who can't seem to figure himself out. But despite good advice, he still chooses the other route and assumes his own demise.

 

[Dead Winter]

I'm not upset over it nor am I pointing any fingers. It's true he brought it on himself and it was a bad move to post it on this board. My question is more of an abstract one, I guess.

I am definitely not one to treat anyone with kid gloves, but in some ways I respect John. He's so brutally honest to a fault and you gotta respect that. I don't think he should've been derided the way he was, but I'm not saying everyone's an asshole because of it. You gotta have thick skin in these har parts. I'm just saying that John is a fragile person and he was just kinda hung out to dry, that's all. Asking him to come back just adds insult to injury. I'm sure he sees that as, "Why, so you can make fun of me even more?"

However, there were a few crass and rude posts made towards him that would've understandably made him upset. Ragequitting isn't a very good path to take, but I think some people said things specifically trying to effect such an outcome, only to come back and say, "Oh yeah, what a baby!" and then washing their hands of it like they had nothing to do with it. If people want to be an asshole, then by all means, they should be an asshole...however, they should own it instead of trying to justify it by saying he brought it on himself. Not pointing fingers or anything and I don't even remember who said what, I just saw a few mean posts as I was scrolling.

 

[Super Mahrio]

I like John, and I had no idea about the above ^ and his childhood.
I hope he does come back actually.

And Chris, I don't believe you two have met: Nevermore Board - Chris, Chris Nevermore Board.
I still think that the replies he got are NOT surprising.

^

However i do believe he shouldnt have posted this thread in such a manner. Perhaps if he had worded it differently...

 

[Lordlucid]

My two cents.
Don't post shit in a metal forum about how your first lay went, good or bad really.
Secondly if he really wanted some input on whether or not he is abnormal when it come to sex then he could have PM'd anyone who he thought might help with some advice.

 

[EricT]

Hold up here...


John was raped as a child? How did I miss this!?

 

[Nightshade]

Hold up here...


John was raped as a child? How did I miss this!?

Erm. Well. He posted it, but it was burried in a kind of longer paragraph.

 

[Anvil]

It was in response to something I said.

 

[Shpongled]

Butter on both sides of each piece of bread, cheese in the middle, throw it on a pan on the stove and grill that shit. Easy. If they were made in a toaster, they'd be called Toasted CHeese sammiches.

 

[Shpongled]

how does one make a toasted cheese sandwich?

I DON'T KNOW THAT'S WHY I REACTED THE SAME WAY AS YOU WHEN YOU ASKED THE SAME QUESTION!

 

[Shpongled]

Here's the real answer.

Lay your toaster on it's side.

 

[TomAwesome]

You could probably jerry rig it to work by smashing two pieces of buttered bread with cheese between them as flat as you could manage and popping it into the toaster.

The new direction of this thread, combined with another thread on the board, presents me with a slight conundrum. I'm hungry now, but I'm about five minutes into a piece of gum.

 

[TomAwesome]

btw do i have to put butter?

Technically, no, but really, yes. Otherwise, it's just cheese on toast, and that's boring.

 

[Kvlt Wench]

There's no way you can make a grilled cheese in a pop-up toaster without making a big disgusting cheesy mess. Just turn on the goddamn stove.

 

[Metalmilitia2000]

There's no way you can make a grilled cheese in a pop-up toaster without making a big disgusting cheesy mess. Just have your woman turn on the goddamn stove and cook it for you.

Fixed.