See, the funny thing is, I have a different situation. Most people, just looking at me, wouldn't know what the fuck I listen to. I don't dress in any particular way, and I don't fall under a stereotype. When I tell people I listen to metal, they just look at me like "Whaaaaaa?" and then I flip them off... I'm a very profane, disturbed, violent person, but only when you actually know me... these people don't get to see my personality- I don't let them unless I like them enough.
The next time someone says that shit to you, you should slap them.