The definite, new "How Do You Feel" Thread

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yes, yes you're right and it was understandable. :)

i'm going out in a short while. at some point of the day it looked as if i wasn't going out because my partner for the night backed out. then he was feeling stupid about backing out and decided he would not. so in one hour i am going to be faced with someone i haven't seen for six months and who has caused me a summer of sheer agony (one and a half years ago. last summer was awful for worse reasons. am i ever going to get a good summer?). but there's things that need to be said and done and undone too. :erk:
 
Hyena: "Good luck" (between quotes because luck is a figment of Mann's imagination) with that person. Hope everything that needs to be done and undone is done and undone.

Hyena and Siren: True about missing out on some (not all) of the good parts and some of the bad parts of life. Love (and, more generally, relationships, be it friend-love, partner-love or any other kind of love) is indeed something one should not miss in life, or else one will not have lived. But sometimes, when you fall too many times and no matter how many times you get up you still keep falling, you come to the conclusion that you've had your share of that part of life and do not want to live it anymore, at least for a while. Thus, you back out on that part of life (in this example, love) and you turn to face other equally important and enjoyable (or even more important and enjoyable sometimes) parts of life. And then being alone is a good thing, not a bad one, since it lets you freely explore those parts of life that you'd partially or totally missed because you were so concentrated with love.

An alternative is, as one of you two said, finding balance. My ex used to say that too. Alas, balance is near impossible and in most cases, i'd say, hardly worth the trouble.
 
UndoControl said:
It's not normal to be alone all the time, but it's not bad either. In fact, normal is bad. Being alone is safer, since they can't hurt you and you don't have anyone to worry about other than you. It's hard and painful, but less painful and more beautiful in the end. :)
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thats exactly what i think!
too bad i had to go and meet someone only to get my heart broken for the first time and now i'm back to being alone and... bored :(

and i'll make sure to read your thread
 
i realised you are never happy with that:
-when alone you wanna be with people
-we with people you wanna be alone

i dont know why its like this most of the time... :p
 
nf: feeling quite good after a fucked up week. I went with my friends to a bowling centre.first time I did this and I like bowling. Bowling isnt so hard as I expected even for absolutely newbies like me and I got a lot of succesexperiences :)
 
Siren said:
what i was talking about was being alone without an intimate partner for a certain amount of time, not being completely alone in life. by no means do i think someone should try to be alone for their whole life in fear of getting hurt, because in that way they miss out both on the good and the bad parts of life, thus they miss out on life.
what i was trying to say was that when you find yourself alone without a partner, it's a good time to build on your strength, on your ability to handle life, and to get to know and love yourself.
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i absolutely agree and btw i need ppl, i mean i love to be with ppl, being alone to me it's one of the worse things in life, the terrible feeling that sometimes comes to me to be totally alone (you know some hard times) really scares me like hell... at least me, i've never felt that urge to be alone... and being with ppl (especially with a partner) never restrict my freedom, so to speak. so i prefer to run the risk of being hurt than being alone... at the same time, i think the most important thing in life is to be independent from every one, so that being with ppl is always a choice...
 
I dont give a damn about how tr00 or untr00 bands are but even so I found the article funny :D

But you have to go give it to them.. tea with milk and sugar IS grim and necro.. seriously
 
Taliesin said:
tea with milk and sugar IS grim and necro.. seriously
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dunno about tea, but coffee with milk is one of the gayest things ever. seriously..
 
Siren said:
dunno about tea, but coffee with milk is one of the gayest things ever. seriously..
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I found the combination of 50 sheepheads and equipment for barbwiring people to the cross with the strawberry condoms and vegetarian food pretty nice. ´They have a soft spot after all :)
 
fireangel said:
I found the combination of 50 sheepheads and equipment for barbwiring people to the cross with the strawberry condoms and vegetarian food pretty nice. ´They have a soft spot after all :)
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After all Gorgoroth have something in common with Mariah Carey. It's soft, pink and it's not the music. :D
 
nf: flabbergasted by the existence of blaze bailey/bruce dickinson slash fic. ewww (see the links thread). i think i'm going to hide in my bed with a ton of good stuff to read.
 
Siren said:
After all Gorgoroth have something in common with Mariah Carey. It's soft, pink and it's not the music. :D
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:lol: :lol: :lol:
Santa's not gonna be pleased.. you've been very naughty this year! :p
 
Has anyone seen the match Turkey - Switzerland?
http://news.bbc.co.uk/sport1/hi/football/internationals/4436038.stm

Threatening banners, screaming fans, thrown eggs.. that's ok. But police and turkish players beating up swiss players and the press, that's way out of the line. And what I saw wasnt swiss players kicking anyone, what I saw was Swiss players running for their lives. If any of those accusations prove to be right, they deserve to be banned from the FIFA for the next 5 years
 
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