The definite, new "How Do You Feel" Thread

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OK, long time no see, right?!? I have shitloads of work these days, 2 huge assignments to be done... But at least one of them is quite fun and evolves my skills a lot.
On my feelings: We had our talking, last monday. We came to the conclusion that a long-distance relationship doesn't make sense since we would be able to see each other - optimistically considered - 2 times next year. But we wanna make the best out of the remaining 3 weeks, no matter how we might feel when we have to say goodbye. But anyway, I'm looking forward to the remaining time although the bitter taste of a great time coming to an end is already there.
We both plan to meet again, as friends, so I might go to Helsinki some day and she planned to visit Germany anyway. Let's see what happens.
 
daniel, I think its a good decision, just see what happens and enjoy the time u have left with her :)

I actually feel very happy for the moment, seems like things are finally going a good way, for the first time all those dark fears and nightmares seem to disappear nearly totally, its good
 
@Undo, Caro: Thanks, I/ we think it's the best way like this. Still, this feels strange since there are thoughts of how it would be like to be together, on the other side I'm still afraid of a real relationship because I enjoy my freedom so much at the moment. And my life is changing a lot these days, next year I'll finish my studies and there's a chance I'll go to New Zealand for 6 months to write my diploma-thesis there. Many things happen these days/ weeks/ months so I think I don't even have the time for a serious relationship.
On a side note, I think the split of Andrea and me came at the right point of my life. Of course, afterwards it should have been earlier, but after all it feels good, even the way we split (with her cheating on me), because this is something that evolved my personality. I changed as a person so much these last 7 or 8 months and I think to a positive way. A close friend confirmed this a few days ago, she said that I'm so much happier and that I seem to enjoy my life so much more. I think, she's right. So, maybe I have to thank Andrea for being a stupid, lying bitch? ;)
 
Scwedentod: Agreed, our enemies can only kill us or make us stronger. I used to hate an ex-girlfriend of mine called Melyssa (she cheated on me and lied to m and did some other fucked up things), but now i'm glad she hurt me that much.
 
Yes, with the first sentence you're totally right. Except maybe for the killing part. I wouldn't call her an enemy, I just don't care about her any more in any way. I we meet and she wants to, we can talk (smalltalk, how are you and so on...) and that's it. I'd tell her that everything's great and wanna see the face... ;) But it made me stronger, I'm sure!

NF: Tired... will go to bed soon.
 
I feel very good today :) Received an email that made me very happy :) I hope everything goes well from here.. we'll see :p
 
nf: kinda optimistic really. i have made a few far-fetched bets on the stock market but i'm confident i wasn't just being stupid. i'm going to work from tomorrow to wednesday, then it's free-for-all holiday from the 8th to the 12th. included. :D
 
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