Every single time I try to listen to Black Metal I end up giving up. But I try and try again. Maybe this time it'll work. I'll listen to that sometime soon.
I don't know which albums you have listened to, but some of the "kvlt classics" are a bit difficult to get into. You might want to try off with a bit of BM light rather than just diving head in. Here's some albums (that may or may not be pure BM) I found to be pretty accessible:
Sacramentum: Far Away From The Sun
Limbonic Art: Moon In The Scorpio
Mystic Forest: Waltz In The Midst Of Trees or Romances
Summoning: Let Mortal Heroes Sing Your Fame
Vesperian Sorrow: Psychotic Sculpture
Windir: Arntor
Enslaved: Isa
Emperor: Anthems To The Welkin At Dusk
Aeternus: ...And So The Night Became
Although, the first BM album I listened to (and enjoyed) was Weakling's Dead As Dreams. I'd say that if you don't find anything you like on that list, then maybe just keep listening to other stuff and try out BM again after your tastes have expanded a little. Personally, I always myself discarding albums after only 1 or 2 listens only to get the urge to check them out again later and find i really liked them.
Anyway, I just discovered Apotheosis (Mlt) and the album "Farthest From The Sun" was absolutely enchanting. Has anyone else heard of this guy?