Nice thread resurrection
Basicaly, its because people love labeling. I'd personally put Bodom into Extreme power metal (as many others do), but sadly a lot of people think that harsh vocals are enough for something to be called death metal. If you'd call it just pure power metal, a lot of typical cheesy power metal listeners probably wouldnt agree. Same goes with the other side, typical death metal listeners. Its just that a genre has evolved during the years, and now basicaly anything that has melodies and harsh vocals either falls into metalcore or melodeath. Needless to say, that really pisses me off, too.
As I said in SOAPF thread, melodeath is pretty stale nowadays, but there are still bands that manage do pull it off. Actually, this year is probably one of the best last few when it comes to melodeath. Bands like Mercenary, Before the Dawn, Norther (they were Bodom-like, but the new record is a pretty solid modern melodeath release, even though I dont like it that much), Deadlock, MyGrain, Project Hate, Scar Symmetry, Universum, Amon Amarth, Omnium Gatherum and some others that I probably forgot put out new records, and none of them are too bad. Plus there is some more to come, like the new Insomnium record which is due to be released in the fall (cant f*cking wait for it, to be honest), new Arch Enemy, new Degradead and again some others. Plus we get the new In Flames record, which while isnt melodeath anymore, is still good enough for a honorable mention
Now sure, when someone says "melodic death metal", older stuff like At the Gates, Gates of Ishtar, Unanimated and Eucharist might come to mind, but modern melodeath isnt really that bad either. There is a lot of unoriginal generic bands, but that is true when it comes to any other genre of music really.
When it comes to the production values, I totally agree. Today everything just sounds lifeless, digital and plastic. But that is something what would be pretty much pointless discussing, IMHO.
This came out a bit longer than I thought it would, but all I want to say is, while the genre isnt at its prime, its not really that bad either