My first "serious relationship guy" and I were just really good friends when we first met.Of course,when we first met,he was l aready in a "serious relationship" w/another girl.The day we met each other,the 2 of us hit it off,just talking about stuff like music and school.And everyone who saw us together threatened to tell his "girlfirend" that he was "cheating on her".What the hell,it's not like we her having sex.And neither were he and his girlfriend.And when I told one of my friends(the one who wasn't a real frined-type person),she asked me "So why don't you just go out with him already?"That's what I think is fucked up about the boyfirend/girlfirned thing,especaily in middle school-it's like you are claiming ownership over that person,even thoigh you aren't in any type of monogomous(sp?) or sexual relationship.And is your boy/girlfriend even talks to someone of the opposite sex,than everyone assumes that you are "cheating" on them.But once the guy and I formed a "relationship,"there wasn't much of that issue about invading space,which dsm has.We made out a lot *shrugs*.It wasn't that much of a big deal.It's not like it was sex.And Amos doesn't have much to be jealous;for she has seen the guy that I'm talking about and she knows what he looks like.