Dave, I think it depends on what you really want. I'm not going to try to help you just get laid, you can take care of that with one hand and an internet connection. If you're looking for a long term relationship my advice would be to pick something that reflects your personality. If you're more of a stay at home and watch movies kind of guy, don't take her out on a wild time on the town, and vice versa. Basically, what I'm saying is be yourself, because relationships based on things other than the truth are usually doomed.