i second transparent here-they gave music a new meaning to me and introduced me to many other great bands-
theyre my favorite band, which for a while i couldnt even say that i had one, i hadnt heard anything that could compare.
and they influenced me to pick up my guitar, take it out of drop d and attempt to play seriously.
i almost forgot the original question here-
as for providing an escape-not so much....i think they put undeniable reality right in front of me. of course i get drawn into the music...but i could almost say they inspire me to keep going not matter how horrible things get. its more of a confrontation than an escape to me. i dont know if any of that made sense!
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massive alcohol consumption provides my escapes! hhaha.)
so they most definately help me through hard times. the music helps me be calm and numb if i am going insane.
but im more often a very happy person, and during these times i dont quite know how to describe the effect katatonia has on me.