I went to amazon.com and someone told me to check out OTEP. I decided to check out the band with a similar name (Opeth) i remembered hearing about for years.
I listened to damnation first, loved it. I then downloaded blackwater park, and was taken back by the screams. Iv only heard basicly my dying bride before (in terms of growling) so it was quite the departure.
I enjoyed the acoustic parts, and the mellow vocals. I continued to listen, and get through each of the records until the screams became part of the music to me and i eventually bought the records, the dvd, tshirts, went to concerts. and basicly still like them alot.