Sorry, don't think I can restrict myself to 3.
Black Sabbath - Planet Caravan and Solitude
Anathema - Regret (not usre if it's soft enough to eb counted here)
Brendan Perry - Captive Heart (most of his stuff is great)
Dark Tranquility - Mine Is The Grandeur...
Dead Can Dance - too many to mention! The Ubiquitous Mr. Lovegrove and The Carnival Is Over are 2 standouts for me.
Delerium - Where to start!? Heaven's Earth and A Poem For Byzantium
(For Belial and Godisanatheist: A rabbid Delerium fan! - fav albums would be Spheres I and II and Semantic Spaces, but the variety over the albums is great too!)
Falling You - Less Likely To Believe
Ulver - Haven't heard much of them, but I'm sure there's a good ballad in ther somewhere
