Do you people think that in a relationship, it's normal to begin to wonder about being with other people once things get to the point where they level out and become comfortable?
For example..I've been with my current girlfriend for a little over four months now. Not long really..but long enough for things to calm down and level out. The giddy, thrilling excitement isn't there as much..and I always thought that was normal. I'm not saying that it's GONE by any stretch of the imagination, but it's just slightly reduced.
The reason I ask is because my girlfriend told me last night that she'd been feeling really guilty for the past three weeks because she's sort of had feelings for somebody else. Not strong feelings she said..but enough to make her doubt her relationship with me. I'm her first experience with these sort of things, and I can see how that might be confusing.
The whole conversation was terribly dramatic and drawn out, but in the end she decided to stay with me, because I still make her happy.
I feel sort of silly about posting this, but I guess I'd like some other people's opinions on the situation. I really don't know how to feel about it. I'm afraid the same thing is just going to happen again in a week, but on the other hand, I really don't want to lose her. Although four months is really only a short time in the grand scheme of things, it's been the best four months of my life.
For example..I've been with my current girlfriend for a little over four months now. Not long really..but long enough for things to calm down and level out. The giddy, thrilling excitement isn't there as much..and I always thought that was normal. I'm not saying that it's GONE by any stretch of the imagination, but it's just slightly reduced.
The reason I ask is because my girlfriend told me last night that she'd been feeling really guilty for the past three weeks because she's sort of had feelings for somebody else. Not strong feelings she said..but enough to make her doubt her relationship with me. I'm her first experience with these sort of things, and I can see how that might be confusing.
The whole conversation was terribly dramatic and drawn out, but in the end she decided to stay with me, because I still make her happy.
I feel sort of silly about posting this, but I guess I'd like some other people's opinions on the situation. I really don't know how to feel about it. I'm afraid the same thing is just going to happen again in a week, but on the other hand, I really don't want to lose her. Although four months is really only a short time in the grand scheme of things, it's been the best four months of my life.