So you would flirt with a man just cos he is in a band? even if you knew they were in a relationship?Raven Soul said:i think that it is only natural, the atrraction between two people so to supress that is bad. if someone likes a person in a band then that band person underneath is a human and that is what you like, it may be the music that you first attracted to.
i like band men, why is that bad? flirting is natural.
siderea said:hehe
well i dont mind, but i might be more picky than you. if im not attracted to the boy i dont want to give him hope you know (not that im that wanted, but...) or if he has a girlfriend i might get a bit angry even. well. well... yeah.
dunno, i think in belgium we dont do that much of eye games on the street, though i might be mistaken. ive the impression southern men do it much more often? like don, do you stand with your friends on the street and then try to catch a girls attention and shout all things to her that shes so beautiful and that? here its only bricklayers who might give you a whistle. and southern/african men.
the weirdest experience i had with this was when i went with 5 hetero friends of mine and one gay for his birthday to a gay party. a friend of mine just couldnt stand those hungry female looks anymore... its disturbing
the eye game is it a special kind? rules? tricks?best said:We just do the eye games and it doesnt lead to anywhere
i mean....if you're trying to pull attention by flirting with another guy.....it's the girliest thing you can do and you must be hopeless as well.You're supposed to attract him because you have certain qualities(in socialising,humour,brains,looks)not because you use another male for your cheap,pant-related issues:Smug:Susie said:Actually, this thread was started just through a conversation i was having with a friend and then i heard stuff that made me curious as to why do birds come on to men, when they know they are in a relationship and they are only doing it to make the guy they want jealous?
yeah whyd they be nervous if someone stares at them hehsomnium_in_tenebris said:about eye-contact...it happens here a lot too.as for myself i do this all the time.i cant really help it.i work only with the eyes Other people dance or start acting nervously or use body language etc.i dont do that but i stare(not look ).thats cos i think the face is the most important,i dont really care about bodies much.
yeh, and when you want to be noticed, you seem to be transparent,somnium_in_tenebris said:sometimes you feel transparent
Well its alright for someone to stare but when it becomes to much , i think you should say 'hey have i got a wellie on me head or something'siderea said:yeah whyd they be nervous if someone stares at them heh
its difficult knowing how to behave when they do that. surely if it are these friendly eyes. i mostly end up with this grin on my face, not able to say anything sensfull. oooh... :sigh:
on the street i try put on a radar on for jehovas and greenpeace lads though. they mostly only start speaking to you if they get you looking at them. so youve to be one step ahead. tricky though if youre thinking of all these other things.