Birds who need to flirt

Raven Soul said:
i think that it is only natural, the atrraction between two people so to supress that is bad. if someone likes a person in a band then that band person underneath is a human and that is what you like, it may be the music that you first attracted to. :)
i like band men, why is that bad? flirting is natural. :) ;) :oops:
So you would flirt with a man just cos he is in a band? even if you knew they were in a relationship?
 
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so that comic strip brings me to the question...which of you ladies (boys too) like to be eyed?

personally, i like being eyed...dont care if the subject is beautiful, ugly, fat or whatever...as long as it's a female :)

be honest.
 
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well i dont mind, but i might be more picky than you. if im not attracted to the boy i dont want to give him hope you know (not that im that wanted, but...) or if he has a girlfriend i might get a bit angry even. well. well... yeah. :saint:

dunno, i think in belgium we dont do that much of eye games on the street, though i might be mistaken. ive the impression southern men do it much more often? like don, do you stand with your friends on the street and then try to catch a girls attention and shout all things to her that shes so beautiful and that? here its only bricklayers who might give you a whistle. and southern/african men.

the weirdest experience i had with this was when i went with 5 hetero friends of mine and one gay for his birthday to a gay party. a friend of mine just couldnt stand those hungry female looks anymore... its disturbing :)
 
siderea said:
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well i dont mind, but i might be more picky than you. if im not attracted to the boy i dont want to give him hope you know (not that im that wanted, but...) or if he has a girlfriend i might get a bit angry even. well. well... yeah. :saint:

dunno, i think in belgium we dont do that much of eye games on the street, though i might be mistaken. ive the impression southern men do it much more often? like don, do you stand with your friends on the street and then try to catch a girls attention and shout all things to her that shes so beautiful and that? here its only bricklayers who might give you a whistle. and southern/african men.

the weirdest experience i had with this was when i went with 5 hetero friends of mine and one gay for his birthday to a gay party. a friend of mine just couldnt stand those hungry female looks anymore... its disturbing :)

Haha Don shouting things at girls :D but they do it here. We just do the eye games and it doesnt lead to anywhere:erk:
 
dunno, u dont do it here as well, its not that common that "flirting on the street" thingie... maybe if u go out at a bar or that, of course u will have the usual flirting scenes going around as everywhere in bars I guess..
 
Susie said:
Actually, this thread was started just through a conversation i was having with a friend :) and then i heard stuff that made me curious as to why do birds come on to men, when they know they are in a relationship and they are only doing it to make the guy they want jealous? :err:
i mean....if you're trying to pull attention by flirting with another guy.....it's the girliest thing you can do and you must be hopeless as well.You're supposed to attract him because you have certain qualities(in socialising,humour,brains,looks)not because you use another male for your cheap,pant-related issues:Smug:

you are twice a wanker if you go disturb someone's relationship with what you do...:err: i hate these stuff in women.i hate so many stuff in women:(
 
@Don i think everyone feels flattered when people are looking at him positively.He gets all the positive energy and he feels better.so its healthy too:)if nobody looks at you,sometimes you feel transparent,no one.you self-esteem falls to the bottom and you wonder"am i soooo transparent then?"

i hate being eyed by elder men :puke: :puke: and i feel guilty being eyed by s.o who has a relationship.I dont like to intervene in relationships.

...and i love eyeing eeeeeeeeverybody:D women,men,kids,ugly,beautiful,common,weird evrybody.I just like to sit in a corner looking closely.People's faces...i find them very important;i try to watch every move,the expressions and then i remember them and i categorise faces,postures,all sorts of characteristics.
Its fun watching people.You can understand them better this way:)
 
about eye-contact...on the streets over here all sorts of men will shout,whistle,talk,or beep you(ffrom inside their car)all the fucking time and i find this so degrading and :puke:
alrite like everytime id see a lovely peace of cake(=cute lad)id shout or whistle to indicate im horny for him??:lol: its a very primitive way to attract attention

about eye-contact...it happens here a lot too.as for myself i do this all the time.i cant really help it.i work only with the eyes :lol: Other people dance or start acting nervously or use body language etc.i dont do that but i stare(not look :lol: ).thats cos i think the face is the most important,i dont really care about bodies much.

oh fuck now we are exposed? :ill: :lol:
 
somnium_in_tenebris said:
about eye-contact...it happens here a lot too.as for myself i do this all the time.i cant really help it.i work only with the eyes :lol: Other people dance or start acting nervously or use body language etc.i dont do that but i stare(not look :lol: ).thats cos i think the face is the most important,i dont really care about bodies much.
yeah whyd they be nervous if someone stares at them heh
its difficult knowing how to behave when they do that. surely if it are these friendly eyes. i mostly end up with this grin on my face, not able to say anything sensfull. oooh... :sigh:

on the street i try put on a radar on for jehovas and greenpeace lads though. they mostly only start speaking to you if they get you looking at them. so youve to be one step ahead. tricky though if youre thinking of all these other things.
 
somnium_in_tenebris said:
sometimes you feel transparent
yeh, and when you want to be noticed, you seem to be transparent,

and when you want to be transparent everybody seems to stare at you...:(



does that make sense anyway ...? i'm not talking about men whistling at me mind you, this goes for lots of situations...
 
siderea said:
yeah whyd they be nervous if someone stares at them heh
its difficult knowing how to behave when they do that. surely if it are these friendly eyes. i mostly end up with this grin on my face, not able to say anything sensfull. oooh... :sigh:

on the street i try put on a radar on for jehovas and greenpeace lads though. they mostly only start speaking to you if they get you looking at them. so youve to be one step ahead. tricky though if youre thinking of all these other things.
Well its alright for someone to stare but when it becomes to much , i think you should say 'hey have i got a wellie on me head or something' :tickled:
no i suppose it is un-nerving when ppl stare alot, especially if you just come out the toilet and you have bog roll stuck on yeh feet :D