Do you guys really care about appearance of a band and the individual members during live sets? It seems like we should believe that it doesn't matter, but honestly, it matters a lot to me.
Like WAIF mentioned, if a metal band comes out wearing sports jerseys and shredding on guitars with stupid fucking stickers all over them or stuff like that I get angry man. When I saw Dream Theater for the first time Portnoy was wearing a Knicks jersey and basketball shorts and that stupid fucking hat he always wears and I found myself fixated on that for the entire show thinking to myself, "This is a metal show right? Like, I didn't stumble in here on accident. Why the fuck wouldn't he care about presenting himself in a manner that would best represent himself and the band?"
I'm all about being comfortable playing drums, trust me. But I paid to see a show, not to see some old guys jamming out in a big ass room. And by show I mean the entire package: visual, sound, atmosphere, the whole nine.
I think far too many bands have lost the ability to put on a good show outside of just playing great compared to the album. Believe it or not, I've been to quite a few metal shows and I don't recall anything amazing or interesting from any of them except my first Slayer show, but that was only because Lombardo threw a stick at my face and I still have it. The best show I've ever been to by a mile is Porcupine Tree, followed by Rush, and then In Flames. This is one of the reasons I don't enjoy live shows anymore, it's boring and I can get better overall experience by sacrificing the scared plant to the fire gods in my room while listening to the album with my badass headphones.