Melodeath, aka Melodic Death Metal, sounds nothing like real Death Metal, therefore it's a different genre altogether, and arguing that is just plain fucking retarded.
After a few days of thinking, and hardcore attempts at getting into it, I have come to enjoy some Norwegian Black Metal other then Burzum. Mayhem's first album, Darkthrones first 4 (Soulside doesn't really count, but I love it.), and Ildjarn.
Although I doubt it's controversial, France has had the best BM scene for a while.
Profanatica is the best black metal to ever come from the US.
V5 has noodz of him laying in a pile of ABBA vinyls.