Mr. O'Keefe has more experience with girls than I do... what the hell is that?! Heheheh. ANYWAYS! The notion of "moving on" is a lot harder than it sounds, a few months ago I was pondering this and came up with the following:
The Next Thing
"Oh well, on to the next thing". What if there is no 'next thing'? This quote suggests that one moves on to a 'next thing'. My question is, if there is no 'next thing', does one move on? Perhaps, people who cannot move on don't do so due to a lack of 'next thing', and, once 'next thing' presents itself, moving on takes place. This puts a lot of importance on 'next thing'. 'Next thing' frickin' better be good. If I find out 'next thing' is a fudgesicle I'm gonna be pretty damn pissed off. Of course, then again, maybe the appearance of 'next thing' cannot be apparent to you unless moving on has taken place first, because otherwise you won't be watching for 'next thing'. Maybe I have it backwards. Hmmm...
I guess when it comes to girls the important thing to me is to skip the bullshit and the game playing and be able to communicate OPENLY and HONESTLY, saying what you actually mean, as opposed to what's supposed to get a certain reaction according to some guy's "Dealing with Women" textbook. Did this happen for you? Does this ever happen?