Girls..

"Girl are OK, but they're not THE REAL THING."

Seriously, getting dumped leads to getting drunk. Too many times in a week...Better come up something more creative is my advice. I also think getting another as soon as possible is not a good idea. Or well, I don't know about you, but I couldn't do it. I just couldn't give the girl what she'd need and deserve from me, if I hadn't left the past behind. And leaving the past behind takes time. And alcoh....OOPS.
 
see... all the girls in defense say like "oh well guys are like that too"... but you're wrong.. heres the deal:

Girls : Dump you for no reason, Arent "ready" for a boyfriend(sometimes they arent ready even when they've had boyfriends before) , want to be your friend but yet never talk to you, yell at you if you try to state that they did something wrong, act different around their friends,tease you and then say they were just joking, flirt with you and then when you make a move they fucking get pissed at you, wear tight clothes and dont expect me to look at their ass, when their friends have a boyfriend girls hate the boyfriend for some reason.... i dont need to put anymore--- this makes absolutely no sense why do girls do things like this??

Guys on the other hand.... what do guys do that is half as baffling as the things girls do... absolutely nothing... the only thing guys do is like have sex with you and dump you or cheat on you or something along those lines becuase they are horney and they are just assholes...... theres nothing to figure out about guys they are just plain assholes!! nothing baffling about this....

(i am not an asshole guy.... i like cuddling and all those sorts of things)
 
Ah, put the part of the equation you're missing there (MikaelisGod) is the one that baffles me the most: Girls are attracted to these assholes. The nice guy simply isn't appealing to the average female, at least under a certain age. I have a theory that as a final step of feminine maturity somewhere in their mid-20's this changes, and genetics kick in and they want to find a "real" person to be with, but under that age (these are all generalizations, by the way, there are of course exceptions) they like to go after assholes, and nice guys only come into play for emotional rebounding to chase after the assholes again. This is my humble observation and experience.

I've had this discussion before and the best answer to "why the hell is this?" I've been able to get pertains to a sense of excitement, danger, etc. etc. the continuing proliferation of the motorcycle-riding badboy image. I always assumed this was another one of the "herd cliches" that would be a nonissue if you're dealing with two openminded individuals, but apparently not. My current thought right now is that if I really wanted to attract females I'm going to have to start beating people up, stealing petty things, killing small animals, and mouthing off everyone. As far as I can ascertain, this would be the stimuli that would gain the response I'm looking for. What the hell is that?!

If any female Opethians would care to enlighten me...
 
Originally posted by HoserHellspawn
If any female Opethians would care to enlighten me...
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This wall of misunderstandings between men and women...wow...WOW. People are weird the way they act different when relationships start...JUST TO GET THAT PERSON. Maybe they feel because they've met someone new, that they sort of forget who they are because they're so into finding out who the other one is. I say they're just wasting their time. Some may even go as far as to call it "practice." Ya know, date this one for a while to figure out how to do this or that better! LOL! I have no idea. I don't do that shit myself...I just don't doubt a fucking thing, that's all...anyways.

Here are some of my own answers...who said all this?

Girls: Dump you for no reason. I'd say they're dumping you and not giving the reason because it's too hurtful for you to hear or it just makes them seem shallow. So, it's convenient that you'd walk away thinking there wasn't a reason. Maybe the reason was even given and it's too complex to explain deeper or it just wasn't understood correctly. Huh! Hell, some guys even say their was no reason because they think the reasons too stupid to even call a solid reason, but I guarantee 9 out of 10 times, if the girl explained her reason to another girl, it would be totally understood. Hahahahaha...

Want to be your friend but yet never talk to you. I wanted to be friends with a guy after I broke up with him. I never saw him again. So, I can easily say, "Guys want to be your friends, but yet never talk to you again."

Yell at you if you try to state that they did something wrong. Oh, my god. You've got to be kidden me. I can't say HE ever did a damn thing wrong. NEVER! This one's bullshit, you know that right? Hahahahaha....

They act different around their friends. Ya know what that says to me? She's really acting different around you, and she's being herself around her friends. There's not much need for an act around her friends...right?

Tease you and then say they were just joking. Keyword is "say." They say they're joking, but I tease because it's a playful way of telling the truth. The just kidden comes when the guy gets a shocked look on his face.

Flirt with you and then when you make a move they fucking get pissed at you. Because you made the wrong move...right? Oh wait, or maybe they were flirting with you to make some other guy jealous...or maybe. Maybe they were really flirting with your friend next to you. lol I'm sorry, I don't mean to direct all this towards you specifically. I don't mean that at all. K?

Wear tight clothes and don’t expect me to look at their ass. What?! Sure she does! She loves it. All women want to be adored...but from a far. She already knows her ass looks good in those tight jeans, that's why she wore them! But, damn...she doesn't need you to gawk at it. Be more discreet, man.

When their friends have a boyfriend, girls hate the boyfriend for some reason. Yeah, guys do that to their friends sometimes too. I've done it myself...but once I noticed what I did, I never did it again. It's when you meet someone and you want to spend all your time with them...and your friend gets sort of left out in the cold. Either they take it out on the girl...which is what my friend did to me, or they take it out on the boyfriend.

AGAIN! These are all my opinions, god. But, I think I got a few answers right. :grin:

THIS MESSAGE WILL SELF-DISTRUCT! :heh:

LYNN
 
opet....haha...you are right...all of those explanations and perspectives make complete sense to me......i think that this is just a heap of gross generalizations and there ARE always exceptions. im not trying to load down all of my "feminine propaganda" and be "evil" though....women can be evil....haha....im just stating my viewpoint and furthering the logic that women and men will NEVER understand eachother...it's a fact.....but sometimes...the effort is fun:grin:
 
Well, that's the bottom line. There are some understandings that are probably never reached but in the meantime it's fun to make light of the situation as a whole. If you can't sit back and laugh at it...

I'm still looking for a response to the question I asked, though: Why are girls attracted to assholes? Am I making a way off-base generalization here? Has anyone else noticed this obvious trend?

Once again, my humble thanks if you'll take the time to reply...
 
Hey Hoser,
In response to your question about why girls are attracted to assholes (from a male perspective) -
I think it's the reverse: it seems the assholes are the best hunters, and the girls become their prey. Who says an asshole can't put up a good front at first, then become the true asshole once he's reeled in his prey?
Just my opinion.
 
Fair Enough, Xtokalon, your interpretation of motives sounds both logical and likely. I don't think you said anything I didn't already know per se, but it was well articulated into a sensical verbal format for easy digestion. Thanks.

I'm still dying to hear from the girls on this one...
 
I don't know about the women on this board, they are probably to intelligent to go out with assholes, listening to Opeth and all. But who knows I could be wrong :goggly:
 
I think that most people aren't very mature until they are about mid 20's or so. I'm only saying most I think people that are actually intelligent kind of know what they want and they don't want some asshole to just go out with for a few weeks or months and just dump. Then to move on to the next pointless fling. This kind of attitude has always just pissed me off. I am 15 and I see all these "couples" that talk about how happy they are and I just laugh and say lets see how you will think in a month or so. I have had to deal with this and have just learned I don't think I want to deal with relationships until I am quite a bit older. Its all pointless and dosn't make sense. It is a waste of time, sure you might get a nice fuck out of it but what does it mean? I look at these 13 year olds that have had sex already and have absolutely no respect for people like that, they will only end up dating people until they are 50 and then marrying some old far, and her pussy is too loose and droopy that sexual tension escalates and becomes a problem divorce occurs, and the cycle repeats once again... OK that part was a bit out of hand haha but I am in a fucking pissy mood right now. :heh: Because I have just recently dealt some of this stupid bull shit lately. Hope I helped hehe. I for one am only 15 and am already thinking to myself that I want to get married and do all that bullshit just meet someone to be with, I will just have to see....
 
Originally posted by Opet
This wall of misunderstandings between men and women...wow...WOW. People are weird the way they act different when relationships start...

Here are some of my own answers..
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Oookay, after all the stuff you wrote, I'm even more confused. :grin: Especially these ones:

Flirt with you and then when you make a move they fucking get pissed at you.
Wear tight clothes and don’t expect me to look at their ass.

Goddamn! :D
It doesn't make any sense to have a divine ass, wear tight clothes to show it off and catch all the looks, and then get angry if someone drools at her too openly. Huh, the female way of thinking is really twisted and evil! :)
 
Originally posted by Morningrise
I I look at these 13 year olds that have had sex already and have absolutely no respect for people like that, they will only end up dating people until they are 50 and then marrying some old far, and her pussy is too loose and droopy that sexual tension escalates and becomes a problem divorce occurs, and the cycle repeats once again...
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Yeah well that may be true, been thinking that myself too, since I know (not that many, but too many) people who do that. They date for a few weeks, then think "he's not good enough for me" and dump him. And then they get another one. In a few...weeks, days, whatever. (that's a "he", since most of these persons I know happen to be girls...but I think generally genders are the same here). They don't bother to even try to make something out of it. And they will probably continue this until they realise they want a steady life and children (25-30 old?, dunno...). And then they pick the first one who comes along, and stay with him no matter whatkinda asswipe he is.

Relationship needs flexibility, as it need to be taken care of. All the time. You can't just expect it to flow forward on it's own. But how to take care of it....That's more difficult :)
 
ok heres some wierd shit that the girls need to explain to me right now...

Ok im not an ugly bastard at all or fat fuck... ive had this clarified several times to make sure i wasn't just a really unnatractive fuck that couldn't get a girlfriend and such...

So basically... that leaves one thing... my personality.... ill give you all my whole history with girls here... its gonna be long so watch out

ill skip the chick that i liked in elementary school... that was just stupid.... ok so this one chick fucking used to tease me and such and she just deny me blah.. i hate when girls do that..... so after i got over that idiotic phase..... there was this other chick... man is she nice. Shes really nice... and i asked her out and she just like said she had to think about it or something(for like 2 weeks??) and then all of a sudden she has a boyfriend.... he was an asshole by the way was definately just in it to get some pussy....... then after she got dumped by him and had her "heart broken" becuase it was so "unexpected", she got this other boyfriend.... he was like one of those fucking faggot kids that dresses like they are black and has a cell phone and shit and all he does is go around trying to hook up with girls every night..... i see him in town all the time still... it baffles my mind why she would want to go out with that dude... so then i finally gave up..... and then my friend fil like was so in love with her and she was his best friend but she didnt want to be his girlfriend.... why !! me and my friend fil are the nicest fukn people... but yet these asses get her......... so then this fucking girl that i liked man... i was like crazy in love with this chick and she didnt even give a shit man.... she said she just wanted to be "friends"... never talked to me... UNLESS SHE NEEDED SOMETHING(another fukd up girl thing) i asked her friend to try to do something becuase i couldnt take it anymore i liked her way alot.... so then her friend explains to me like "kristen wants a guy thats tall... with dark hair.... and a flat stomach.... and dresses nice... and is really sweet and nice".... and that just baffled me like a fuckn retard..... that kind of guy doesnt exist..... then i got a girlfriend finally...she was 2 years older then me... and apparently was the only girl that wasnt an idiot.... yes there actually are girls that arent mind baffling!! so anyway.....she said i was like the sweetest guy she ever met... apparently she used her brain to figure out thats the kind of boyfriend you WANT... but i found out she had like... mental problems and drug problems... and i said fuck that! ok so now there was this girl kari...... she happened to have much in common with our personalities.. so i asked her friend to see what she could do and shes like "kari doesnt know you that long so she said no"... wow what a good reason not to go oout with me... because you only knew me for like 3 months.... its not like 3 months is that short.... so then comes this other girl..... oh shit i left one out before... let me get to her first.... this girl used to tell me like how sweet i was and nice and like "damn dan why dont you have a girlfriend your such a sweet guy how could they say no to you"...... well i asked her out one day and she said NO.... damn retarded bitch.......... so anyway this next chick was just like "i want a boyfriend" she was like all depresssed because she wants to have a boyfriend so im sitting there like thinking in my head "helloo... im a boy and im sitting right here.... helloooooo" ... apparently she didnt realize i was a boy..... ok so then comes my most recent... this chick kim is really beautiful and such... so i was like... hmm... yea i like her... so im gonna see where that goes.... ill let everyone know if she denies me or if she doesnt..... in a couple of days.......

i rule this has to be the longest post ever
 
Stream of consciousness much..

My only problem is that I'm obsessed with someone, and then someone ELSE became obsessed with me. That's a tough one. Spawns a lot of jealousy.

Bah. girls. In a few weeks I might not be saying that though ;)
 
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