Holy Shit, I Think I figured it out!

[Thorns of Sorrow]

Sadly, I am classiclly trained, and I do agree that it can be limiting, but I can hear, and listen alot better because of it.
So it sort of balances out for me.

 

[Misanthrope]

hehehe then you tell me the correct names of those 2 chords, its driving me nuts!

hehehe