V-day is nice, but only in case you are NOT in a relationship. Otehrwise it becomes obligatory and stuff, and usually fake after all - how can you love person who sleeps, eats, shits, farts, belches (I'm speaking of females too) by your side for a significant amount of time? It's more like a roommate, not something I call passion.
I mean, you should celebrate a healthy relationship every day till death or another fine piece of ass makes you part, making a V-day an excuse to get laid - pfff, that's a new low! Wanna have a good/nice time - make up for it on a fucking Monday in January, you don't need a calendar if you just feel like it.
Of course, calendar events aren't that bad. Surprise her with a nice basket with neat stuff on Easter morning, but V-day... soooo llllllame.