Einherjar86
Active Member
Why is it completely acceptable for women to use sex to get things they want, but it's absolutely reprehensible for men to use things to get sex?
There you go. There's the center of this whole thing. That you think these two things happen as though in a vacuum and are of equal value.
I'm not saying it's acceptable that women use sex to get things they want. You're misunderstanding me over and over again. I don't think it's acceptable at all that they're forced to make a decision on whether to risk their bodies or bow out completely. Sexuality shouldn't be on the table in the first place, but because it is victims are forced to work within a set of narrow options. The acceptability and reprehensibility of sexuality, as we're discussing them, take place on two different hierarchical levels. They can't be judged equally.
For what it's worth, I think it's reprehensible that Avital Ronell used her position to get sex, and that it's acceptable for Reitman to have gone along with it.