you know, I am not sure why people don't think there is a happy medium when it comes to bodybuilding.
the choice is not between being 140 Lbs and being 340 LBs. You can be 6 foot 200 LBs, be considerably muscular and still look great and not look like a freak at all.
people misunderstand bodybuilding when they think the only point of it is to look like ronnie coleman. You can be 175 LBs super lean and still be a great bodybuilder. At 175, you can be muscular, look great, feel great, be very healthy and live longer because you took great care of your body.
Bodybuilding =/= injecting roids into your ass so you can be a 400 pound inhuman freak. It's about leading a better lifestyle. The top bodybuilders are those 400 pound inhuman freaks, but the rest of us are nowhere near that, most bbers are around 180 - 210 LBs and largely natural.