^in other words women are annoying as fuck
In my experience, girls you don't know well generally misinterpret eagerness for desperation, especially over technology. They want guys every bit as much as guys want them, but they enjoy the thrill of being attractive if they earn it authentically. If you start out interested, they have no chance to dazzle you being themselves.
Is she actually fucking with you at all, blue balls wise, or are you friendzoned pretty squarely and mad about it? Letting a friend crash after a long night does not a romance make.
Just saying. But I'm rooting for you, fella.
I repeat: do not take romantic advice from this sad collection of weeaboos, virgins, and aging btards.
She's a lovely girl who obviously only considers her feelings to be important and that you're just some idiot that will help her get herself together so she can get back out there in the marketplace again. That's what I'm getting from this story.
I would never give advice to begin with. 99% of the time romantic advice is cliché bullshit and piss artist wankery.
Pretty much, what other advice can a male give anyway apart from 'just try and get a fuck' , it's up to the lady otherwise it's known in the court of many sessions as rape.