Males and Females

[damnromulans]

I almost never experience that the girls I talk to while out are genuinely into anything that I'm into, which is starting to get depressing to be honest. It feels like I always have to adulterate myself to keep a discussion going when for example talking about music.With this being a music/nerd forum I assume I'm not alone in often feeling like this? Or perhaps it's a small town curse, since big cities tend to provide more options for alternative interests and gathering points related to them.

It is a small town curse for sure. Thank God for the Internet, without it I would have no way of finding like-minded anybody!

 

[monoxide_child]

for a lot of men, the sex comes first, they even have a term for it, it's called "test driving the car" basically it means seeing if she's "good in bed" before deciding whether or not to "date" her

also
sex just for the sake of having sex can be fun if you get into the right frame of mind
last night i had sex with a woman that i'll prolly never get to have sex with ever again, i'm in a social situation where i'll prolly see her every day from now till i get my money in 7 more business days, but i actually realized it was going to be a one-night-stand in the middle of intercourse, and it was still enjoyable, i'm prolly going to be able to have sex with some other people before my money gets here, and i'll prolly have a completely different woman move in with me when i get my apartment, but the one-night-stand was still fun

It is a small town curse for sure. Thank God for the Internet, without it I would have no way of finding like-minded anybody!

why don't all the people on this forum just meet their girls online?

 

[damnromulans]

A lot of them do

 

[monoxide_child]

A lot of them do

i just meant that if you're meeting your girls at www.plentyoffish.com or something, you can screen out the girls you don't want pretty quickly by describing yourself and announcing what you're looking for in a girlfriend

 

[~Derek~]

i just meant that if you're meeting your girls at www.plentyoffish.com or something, you can screen out the girls you don't want pretty quickly by describing yourself and announcing what you're looking for in a girlfriend

Last time I went on a POF date the girl was a total bitch. She was fine through texting and on the phone, but when I went to her house after she invited me over(yes, I went to her house first time meet), she was sick with something and in a bad mood. And she didn't want to talk to me and would rather text, and basically said it might be a good time for me to leave. So I called her out for being a bitch(didn't call her that though lol), told her that you don't treat people like that among other things and left her house, never to see her again.
On a side note, I had s suspicion this girl may be crazy with the potential to assault me, and she was a single mommy too. So maybe I should stay away from them. And POF women.
I'm just using POF as a "get laid quick scheme", and I just have fun by sending random messages to a lot of girls, and do my part by not being willing to drive to their home towns(which are usually 30 mins.-an hour or two away, fuck that!) or paying or going on serious dates, and trying to get them to come see me. Might as well become a pick-up artist or something.

 

[SentinelSlain]

So this girl I'm seeing can't cook. It's a bit of a shame really. Ultimately I would like a housewife who makes lovely meals for me every day and looks after the children. This girl wants to be a politician. She is really pretty though, you guys would be impressed, but no pics. It's not that I don't respect or value her intelligence, I just feel a bit intimidated by the prospect of cooking for her, which I've ended up having to promise to do. Oh well, I'll just practice some cool recipe a couple of times before I invite her over.

 

[PhlegethonVeins]

Nothing wrong with cooking. Fuck recipes though, improvise!

 

[waif]

Women like a man who can cook.
Of course, they also like one with attitudes that have been updated since the 1930s.

 

[damnromulans]

Women like a man who can cook, and I think in the West view men who can't cook/do household chores as useless and dependent which ultimately = unattractive.

PP is a much better cook than I am but he hates doing dishes, so I do the dishes and he cooks.

 

[SentinelSlain]

The girl isnt western.

 

[King Richard]

Everyone should know how to cook.

And ya, I hate doing dishes but it's worth it if you make a killer meal.

 

[damnromulans]

She's not western? Then what the fuck is her excuse for not being able to cook?

 

[SentinelSlain]

She's a bit ashamed about it. I think she's a bit of a princess.

 

[monoxide_child]

this cigarrette-smoking woman decided to get dressed in the middle of the night, saturday night, using her lighter as a flashlight, coudln't find her panties, put her "low rise" pants back on without underwear, and walked around all day with a short shirt and butt-cleavage showing all day sunday, she didn't want to be by herself so i followed her to eat breakfast here

http://soulchurch.org/events.php

then lunch here

http://inthestoryline.com/2008/07/28/second-chance-cafe-the-bridge/

and the whole time she was walking around showing butt-cleavage
after lunch she went to go pan-handle money to buy beer and only after she left did i realize that i somehow had her underwear in the huge knee-pocket of my cargo-pants, since i didn't know where she went to panhandle, i ended up spending all day yesterday with her underwear in my pocket

so
i run into this girl at www.ourcalling.org and i told her "hey, i found your underwear" and she said "don't worry about it just throw them away", i think she was with the guy she was panhandling with and this guy next to her was clearly her new boy toy, and it was kinda weird for me seeing this woman go from having sex with some other guy to having sex with me to having sex with a 3rd guy in 48 hours, but really only because she's clearly not trying to be any kind of hooker/escort/prostitute, she's just being a skanky slut

 

[PhlegethonVeins]

What the hell kind of life do you lead?

 

[Master_Yoda77]

monoxide_child is a combo of Onder, Death Delirium, and slougfegkillers rolled into one package.

 

[sevag00]

Cool. Three of my favorite flavors in one.

 

[Vossyrus]

I really don't cook too much beyond simple stuff but that's because my diet is currently a simple, and very healthy one. I'm not on a raw food diet or anything, but I find it absolutely unnecessary to cook anything elaborate (or anything that would prove to be detrimental to my diet) when a simple, healthy meal can suffice just fine.

I've never really understood this wah, I need someone who can cook for me attitude that most people seem to have. Make your own damn meals!

 

[arg]

what a charming, cultured lady monoxide_child has. i bet she has anal panhandling orgies in the backrooms of churches

 

[damnromulans]

I really don't cook too much beyond simple stuff but that's because my diet is currently a simple, and very healthy one. I'm not on a raw food diet or anything, but I find it absolutely unnecessary to cook anything elaborate (or anything that would prove to be detrimental to my diet) when a simple, healthy meal can suffice just fine.

I've never really understood this wah, I need someone who can cook for me attitude that most people seem to have. Make your own damn meals!

I think it's the idea of "if I lose my fingers, my loved one can still keep me fed" more than anything.

My diet is probably similar to yours, 90% of my grocery list is vegetables/raw meat/whole fruit, but it's still nice to have someone else make you stuff out of those ingredients every once in a while.