As fucking shallow as it sounds I'm getting pretty bummed with attempting to meet someone. I'll have an awesome amount in common with her and I try to think "looks aren't everything, see them for their personality" but I just can't do it. And they aren't unattractive by even modern society's often tough standards. I'm a very particular SOB and am constantly critical of everything I encounter. You can afford to be that way in some areas of your life- buying a new car, make sure everything meets your standards, cross things off your list, but you can be that way with people. I wish I could be like most of society and be either lacking of standards or at least mentally capable of settling for less. It would make life in general a hell of a lot easier.
I cant bring myself to do that stuff. I feel like such a loser doing it
I've stopped caring about finding a chick.
I figure it will never happen, so why fret about it. Whatever
I've stopped caring about finding a chick.
I figure it will never happen, so why fret about it. Whatever
Krig you could actually get with a nice girl though. I'm a train wreck of a guy and I've managed it a good few times now.
eh, I have a long ways to go before I look like im close to being in shape.From what I've observed you put a huge investment into improving yourself, getting into shape and pursuing some very healthy and creative hobbies. You should have no problem taking that next step and putting yourself out there. Make a return on that investment.
gotta earn confidenceYeah man. You still have the self esteem of a fat dude. What's that about?
I don't get it. He posts shit like that about once a month, gets advice on what to do, and then dismisses all of it and we'll get to see another post from him about not having a girlfriend, or chances with women, in another month.
Either fucking do something or just shut up about it. Online dating isn't pathetic. It works for people, a lot of people who are currently having great relationships and sex, something you're not having. Yea, they must really feel like losers.