Males and Females

I don't get it. He posts shit like that about once a month, gets advice on what to do, and then dismisses all of it and we'll get to see another post from him about not having a girlfriend, or chances with women, in another month.

Either fucking do something or just shut up about it. Online dating isn't pathetic. It works for people, a lot of people who are currently having great relationships and sex, something you're not having. Yea, they must really feel like losers.
 
From what I've observed you put a huge investment into improving yourself, getting into shape and pursuing some very healthy and creative hobbies. You should have no problem taking that next step and putting yourself out there. Make a return on that investment.
eh, I have a long ways to go before I look like im close to being in shape.

Yeah man. You still have the self esteem of a fat dude. What's that about?
gotta earn confidence


I'll just shut up about it
 
I don't get it. He posts shit like that about once a month, gets advice on what to do, and then dismisses all of it and we'll get to see another post from him about not having a girlfriend, or chances with women, in another month.

Either fucking do something or just shut up about it. Online dating isn't pathetic. It works for people, a lot of people who are currently having great relationships and sex, something you're not having. Yea, they must really feel like losers.

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I was skeptical about online dating too, but I found my current girlfriend on okcupid, and we've been together now over a year. I like it a hell of a lot better than trying to pick up chicks at a bar or something. You get to see right away what their personalities are like, and there's no pressure.
 
I met PP at a bar. He has fatboy self esteem issues as well, which works because I have them too.

Krig I think the Internet is not so scary or pathetic. It's hard to meet women when you're not around them in public. What about that chick you banged? Does she have cute friends?
 
"Just happening" = willful disregard of causality. The ability to recognize and act on opportunities is a result of character. Not to say that pure chance can't render a random desperate chick doing all the work for you.
 
"Just happening" = willful disregard of causality. The ability to recognize and act on opportunities is a result of character. Not to say that pure chance can't render a random desperate chick doing all the work for you.

I was referring to the meeting part. I still had to act to go beyond that.
 
No you didnt! Don't fucking lie Dak. You're a fucking chick magnet dude. You're probably always somewhere in Arizona or where ever, on that soapbox, preachin' on, gettin' all those fuckin' bitches wet.

Krig, Id fuck you dude. Hard.
 
"Just happening" = willful disregard of causality. The ability to recognize and act on opportunities is a result of character. Not to say that pure chance can't render a random desperate chick doing all the work for you.

Was referring to meeting, also relationships instead of hook ups for clarification. Of course some sort of action has to be made, but I've never been the type to try hard to seek out things, yet I have almost always been in a relationship (by no means a physically attractive guy, am rather introverted and have odd tastes in a lot of things so this throws me, but whatever).