I come at men very aggressively with equal parts romance and intimidation. Wrote my dude poetry when we first got together, showed up with an adventure bag and beer, shit like that. I'm always shocked it isn't the creepiest thing ever because I half laugh the whole time about how scary I am, but damned if it hasn't always worked.
I think my unapologetic expression of self is a turn on or something. No shame here. Pretty good rule of thumb, being yourself.
I don't give a shit about most people. Which is why I did online dating because I'm not good at approaching people.
But that's different from doing stuff like negging, or showing a level of interest different from the one you have in order to make the other person do more work to keep you interested.
Master Yoda Mike is usually referred to as Schmidt in real life fyi.
And I found out that one of my fave male pornstars that I considered to be a gentleman who marries every girl he stuffs in a movie - also screws guys![]()
How come you don't like that? Most men would like a woman who fucks other women.
I've slept with a bunch of girls so I guess I'll weigh in on game: it's about presenting your best self. Don't lie about who you are, just try to show your best aspects and avoid situations that will expose your worst. There's nothing deceptive about it - it's the social equivalent of posing for a picture.